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Old October 5th, 2005, 10:12 PM   #11 (permalink)
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IMO your parents shouldnt have a say in anything..you're 38 not 8 my god


I agree with you. Unfortunately they don't. My mother wrote a letter to me stating that it was not fair that my father was paying the majority of the bills and that I was preventing them from going on vacation next year. That hurt me because they both knew that I am doing all that I can to get a job. Since I moved, I have been working all the time and when I haven't worked, I have been looking. But both of them are not going to be satisfied until I am working in a 9-5 job.
Woah...what the heck...sounds like a control/guilt trip issue...Man are they afraid of their little girl growing up by her damn self still?
 
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Old October 5th, 2005, 10:32 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I quit my job a little over a month ago.. and I quit without having a clue of here my income would come from. I posted my resume online and luckily I did some online searching. I happen to find a job that was even better.. so within about 3 weeks I was back at work again. This time it did seem much easier than when I would use the sunday paper and spend money on faxing people who would never really respond to me. I found that alot of the better jobs were not even in the paper.

Good luck to you.

Thank you Chelbe, I have posted my resume online and I also look in the paper. I also have faxed my resume but you are right, they do not respond when I faxed the resume. Most of the seasonal jobs have come from the newspaper and temporary agencies. I also used to have a steady part time job but they closed the company 6 months after I moved South. I am going to try posting my resume online again, maybe that will work for me, thanks for the suggestions.

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Woah...what the heck...sounds like a control/guilt trip issue...Man are they afraid of their little girl growing up by her damn self still?

I guess so but it is just showing me that I have to do things differently. I am glad that even though I could have worked at my parents' job instead of getting my own job for the last 15 years I didn't and that is one area where I have succeeded without my parents' help. My parents' are constantly reminding me that even though I have accomplished alot I could have never done it without them. So you do have a point.

OOPS, those two above posts should have been seperate, sorry about that!!!

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I do understand that the pay scale is lower in the south, but so is the cost of living.

You said that you are paying $450 per month for medical coverage, do they not have any public health clinics where you can go for yearly check-ups unless you have a medical condition that you have to go more often, even then there are programs available for lower income people (been there, done that).

Don't give up, keep looking, I think I worked at 2 temp agencies and another crappy job before I was blessed with what I have now. Honey its a little rough everywhere.

You said you worked in customer service, are you applying for those jobs only or do you have other skills? when I was haveing hard time I think I applied for whatever was available. have you tried the state, city or county for jobs?

It WILL be alright just keep praying & keep going. You may give out, but don't give up!

Yes, I have done every type of job, cleaning, taxes, telephone survey, receptionist, teller, collector, working in a department store putting tags on clothes and dusting shelves and cleaning mirrors, file clerk to name a few. Most of these jobs are seasonal or temporary. One job (telephone survey) the company closed after I moved here 6 months. And that was steady money that I could count on until they closed. Thank you, I have been praying and thank God he has kept me going!!!!!!!!
 
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Old October 5th, 2005, 11:11 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Old October 6th, 2005, 01:54 AM   #14 (permalink)
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IMO your parents shouldnt have a say in anything..you're 38 not 8 my god
they have a say if they are paying the bill and its been 6/7 months who whould dint.
you i mean really though but just like it was said you need to revaluate your options .and do something that really makes some money to pay your own bills you are not a little girl but you are sounding like one not to be mean or any thing but its the truth and it sounds like you have mant skills so put them to good use to pay your own bills then you whould not get yelled at
 
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We might be able to help you if you live near one of the members. Networking is so important. I know you have heard that "It's not what you know, but who you know." You need to draw from every organization that you are a part of...sorority, church, civic organizations, women's groups. If you're not a member of anything, then join something where you can meet people who can help you.
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