grown folks acting like kids - AfroChat - African American

goodcookinmama · September 30th, 2005, 10:05 PM

ohwee i am just to mad why is it that when something happens with kids the grown folks end up beaing the one to act like the kids. yelling and screaming
ok here is the stiuation. my daughter and my neice got in to it. now they be around each other most of the time so they argue some .well to day they had a big fight and my sister in law jumped in and pushed my daughter down .and then my neice started fighting her. i was not there but my oldest daughter went over there and she said that my sister in law was yelling kick her *** kick her *** .now mind you that these are cousins she should have told them that they should not have been fighting .but no she she had to get her *** in there and act like a kid and this made her look stupid as hell not to mention the fact that she has to deal with me on this :workout: she is the
type to belive that her kids can do no wrong no matter what they do she is behind them witch makes them think that they can do any thing and get away with it well she has crossed the line this .then and i am going to set her childish *** strait as soon as i can get to her why do some grown *** people act like this is beyond me

urfan2c · September 30th, 2005, 10:09 PM

No she had no right to push your daughter down, me and the sister law would have some real words and a mean understanding. I think I woulda had to beat my cousin and aunt up on that one. My daughter wouldn't go over their house anymore and the def wouldn't be welcomed in mine. She would never think about disrespecting my child in that way. That's pure garbage and that's what I mean about the respecting elders going out the door...grown folks are way to childish these days. If you act like a peer i'm going to treat you like one.

goodcookinmama · September 30th, 2005, 10:17 PM

thats just how i feel and when i see her its on i am going to let her know that i do not preshate what she did and that all she did was made her self look stupid as hell now all of her neighbors also knows what she is all about

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No she had no right to push your daughter down, me and the sister law would have some real words and a mean understanding. I think I woulda had to beat my cousin and aunt up on that one. My daughter wouldn't go over their house anymore and the def wouldn't be welcomed in mine. She would never think about disrespecting my child in that way. That's pure garbage and that's what I mean about the respecting elders going out the door...grown folks are way to childish these days. If you act like a peer i'm going to treat you like one.

this is too much i cant wait to get to her i am going to do every thing not to hit her *** but i cant make any promises

urfan2c · September 30th, 2005, 10:26 PM

Can't say I blame you, but to really get her talk down to her without cursing her or fighting her. Make her feel small and obsolete.

goodcookinmama · September 30th, 2005, 10:29 PM

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Can't say I blame you, but to really get her talk down to her without cursing her or fighting her. Make her feel small and obsolete.

yea thats true but like said it going to mighty hard thing to do and the more that think about it the madder that i get

trinigirl · September 30th, 2005, 10:40 PM

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she is behind them witch makes

GC i wonder if this was a typo but then it came in soo nicely. If it was girl this is the power of the mind it was your subconscious thought.

goodcookinmama · October 1st, 2005, 04:54 AM

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GC i wonder if this was a typo but then it came in soo nicely. If it was girl this is the power of the mind it was your subcinscious thought.

naw trini i just misspelled the word :o

Chelbe · October 1st, 2005, 08:25 AM

Different situation, but I was thinking this very thing today, about "grown children".

goodcookinmama · October 1st, 2005, 10:37 PM

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Different situation, but I was thinking this very thing today, about "grown children".

yes grown children are a hassel too my daurghter is 20 and her and her cousin was fighting but the matter to me the fact that her aunt made them fight i dont care if she forty i am still going to be by her side as long as she is right and here she was not in the wrong it was her aunt that was in the wrong for letting the cousins fight at all and then disprecting her by calling her bitches and telling her daughter to kick her *** that was totally uncalled for if my daughters do something wrong and i know that they are wrong i tell, them so they have never evre even thought to disprect their aunt my sister in law now me and her in it to it i went over to her and my brothers house and trini girl i tried to keep it cival but she went to trying to make me see thar she weas not wrong and that thats not what happended but my outher daughter was there and saw it all and she told her aunt that that was not true that she did do all of those things and she made me so mad that i just went all the waty off on her *** and todl her that just like she love hers o love mine the only difference is that my do not disprect her at all and that she crossed the line and i lety her wrong *** have it she went in the house and slamed the door and i told her *** thats what i thought next time if there is a next time do the right thing i betcha that she thinks twice before she try that **** again

Chelbe · October 1st, 2005, 11:19 PM

When I said "grown children" it was in reference to the title of your thread "grown folks acting like kids". I agree with you GCM. Sister in law was wrong as hell for that. If she wasn't going to put a stop to it, she should have stayed out of it IMO.