grown folks acting like kids

[goodcookinmama]

Originally Posted by Chelbe

When I said "grown children" it was in reference to the title of your thread "grown folks acting like kids". I agree with you GCM. Sister in law was wrong as hell for that. If she wasn't going to put a stop to it, she should have stayed out of it IMO.

i know chelbe girl i was responding to all look when i went to post i just kept right on after your post you know that i know that its all good
once i get started its on and i had just got back from telling her azzz off
so i was ready tell yall about it and to let trini that i tryed to be cival but some people have a bad understanding ohwee i let my sister in law take me there
and i hate it when i have to get all mad and shitzz so i was ready to vent for real , i havent had to go off like that in a while and i hope that i dont have to again for a long time

[tiptop53]

I am glad that this darma your sister-inlaw created is over. I would hate to hear you had a stroke. this is the kinda of stuff that makes your pessure rise and the only way to release pressure is to vent or snap on the person who causes it. They don't understand how to be civil. I know you hate to drop down to her level. Now you can find peace. Let go and Let God deal with the rest.Karma is atrip when it comes back on those who put out bad vibes.
I know just how you felt. I had to snap on a family memeber to . It was my sister. I took care of our mother for 81/2 years. not once did she every ask if I need help or a break. The day my mom died she called out my sisters name. I sat there and could not understand why her. She did very little for my mom. If I need something down I would have to call her and make sure that she had the time. This use to pi## me off. You can do stuff for everyone else but not me or your mother. I snapped on her 2weeks before mom died. I was tried and overwhelmed. So I truly know how you feel when grown folks act like kids.

[Samoon]

"My daughter wouldn't go over their house anymore."

That will do it for me. I would not want my child to accept that fighting is the thing to do to resolve conflict.

[mariaic]

That is sick an adult sitting there edging on a fight between children. You need to kick her a** since she's thinking like a kid. She needs some sense slapped into her. What is the world coming to?

[goodcookinmama]

Originally Posted by mariaic

That is sick an adult sitting there edging on a fight between children. You need to kick her a** since she's thinking like a kid. She needs some sense slapped into her. What is the world coming to?

hey mariaic my daughter is 20 but its still wrong and we are not speaking at all because of it she see no wrong in what she s done they are cousins and she went to far

Originally Posted by mariaic

That is sick an adult sitting there edging on a fight between children. You need to kick her a** since she's thinking like a kid. She needs some sense slapped into her. What is the world coming to?

i damm near did that but she slamed the door and my dayghter is 20 but the fact remains the same that she was way out of line in what she did she should have stoped it and not egged it on