...Labeled A House Negress...

[sephari]

Originally Posted by DBlack

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And we know your agenda already, so don't even come with all that "we are the world nonsense"

You love white culture so much, then that's where you should be. Read the sign that's on the door.

you want to humor me a moment? what agenda is it that i have?

and actually i love all cultures, i don't see what is so wrong with that.

[Moe17]

Originally Posted by DBlack

You do go out of your way to inform others that you live in a rich white neighborhood. So what?! You do go out of your way to express your attraction for white men, and white culture?! Do you really think someone deeply in love with their blackness would let your white-brandishing go unchallenged?! Seems to me you are the one crying unnecessarily.

Perhaps it stings you for a reason...

I didnt call anyone a troll but I did state "well open" to them.

I didnt inform anyone of my neighborhood...I mentioned that because what I listed was silly reasons why I WOULD be labeled a N'gress.

But I am pretty sure you dont know my whole life story. I've lived in poverty (the ghetto), w/o my fam not even being able to afford a car or decent 'anything' for us & alot of other personal things, I cant mention out of respect for them---to---here! In Atlanta, Ga, Im still stunned how many assumptions people make about me thinking Im bragging (or going out of my way) to prove my blackness---or "lack there of" because of my lifestyle.*smdh*
DBlack, please, I didnt even mention that (my neighborbood) on this site or the other---if anything I've spoken about how I cant stand this boring place full of uppity white people----who break their necks just to say hello to the new "negros" on the block...with a d*mn confederate flag on their pick-up trucks.
Then agian, that is where my "blackness" comes into question (likewise) unfortunately Im not surprised about that. Im different, I have to deal w/it---and like I told "others" being different pays off...But what I love about MY black family is that they ACCEPT my nonconformity & have encouraged it since I can remember. I've always been brought up like that---thank goodness.
Im not out ho-ing, preaching & not doing a thing to help my community, Ive dealt w/some of the worse characters your mind could only imagine---so you're right; ya dont know me...And my parents would allow me to do almost anything because I was always "ahead" of alot of people in my mentality.

I dont go out of my way to express white-nothing...all my post was HONESTY! That has NOTHING to do with my people & I'd be crazy to even compare anyone else to us. ...anyways, my point is, Im not changing a thing about myself. Reason being, I do wish more black people were different, like myself-thats outside of the art schools, lol. Thats just a personal thought...

Now, it "STINGS ME" because of where I live now---I didnt know Atlanta was so "swirlish". Of course, when Im compared to the blackwomen who ride whitemen like horses---yes it would sting me. That pisses me off.
Btw, I go out of my way to learn more & more & more...about MY PEOPLE. That is one of the reasons I joined, D. Black...because everyone in here is more dedicated to learning & catering to US instead of focusing on the IR-bull, brainwash, etc. threads.

Dont think Im just some "youngster" trying to play around on the net---Im here to learn, in and out of Afrochat.

And when, where & how do I go out of my way to show my love for white men? Are YOU serious...I keep showing love for black men... if anything, Im lucky enough to receive a thank you. Plus those shocked looks that come across a blackman's face when I give him a compliment (true story: I guess he thought I would think his physique was ugly).*smh*I guess most men dont remember that they are in the images of my father, little brother (to whom I set the example)-uncles, cousins, professors, doctors...etc.

My thing is, I would like everyone to explain your personal definition of a "house N'gress". Because something aint adding up (apparently)...

Anyways, DBlack, I still respect you.



"Do you really think someone deeply in love with their blackness would let your white-brandishing go unchallenged?!"
...what?...break that down...DBlack. because Im in love with it. Are you?

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by DBlack

Then again, if someone calls you a HouseNegress, and you call them a troll, seems pretty even to me.

Maybe they have a point, again, maybe they don't. You do go out of your way to inform others that you live in a rich white neighborhood. So what?! You do go out of your way to express your attraction for white men, and white culture?! Do you really think someone deeply in love with their blackness would let your white-brandishing go unchallenged?! Seems to me you are the one crying unnecessarily.

Perhaps it stings you for a reason...

Elegantly Stated Brotha D!

[T Bone]

Two things come to mind. First, a person has to recognize where he is. If he is in a room full of black people that are in the room because it is where black people are going to be, then that person should expect some extreme devotion to blackness. Second, any person in any room needs to learn that when people are invited to express their opinions (which is what happens in an internet forum), a thick skin is required.

[Proudbrothaman]

Originally Posted by DBlack

Please, you ain't foolin anybody! There's a big difference between loving thy neighbor and coveting them over your very own. She deliberately made the points she made because she WANTED that perception and got treated as such. You don't want people to have a perception of you, don't put yourself on front street.

And we know your agenda already, so don't even come with all that "we are the world nonsense"

You love white culture so much, then that's where you should be. Read the sign that's on the door.

At this point I have to agree with Dblack, the distribution of information to strangers is totally in your control. When you let it out that you live in a white area, white men attract you, etc. etc. you open yourself up to judgement.

[Moe17]

Originally Posted by T Bone

Two things come to mind. First, a person has to recognize where he is. If he is in a room full of black people that are in the room because it is where black people are going to be, then that person should expect some extreme devotion to blackness. Second, any person in any room needs to learn that when people are invited to express their opinions (which is what happens in an internet forum), a thick skin is required.

True. I think thats where I can wrap my thread up...lol...

[onelove917]

to be seen as a "sell-out" sadly often requires one to simply disagree with a brother or sister



this is not to mention the idiots who think not acting like a "junk yard dog" is acting white

who said being a decent human being was being white ? - oh I remember, it was ole master who said that - the dog must be laughing in his grave - he taught us to be his fools so effectively

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by onelove917

to be seen as a "sell-out" sadly often requires one to simply disagree with a brother or sister



this is not to mention the idiots who think not acting like a "junk yard dog" is acting white

who said being a decent human being was being white ? - oh I remember, it was ole master who said that - the dog must be laughing in his grave - he taught us to be his fools so effectively

Right It's time to break it down.

[Moe17]

Originally Posted by onelove917

to be seen as a "sell-out" sadly often requires one to simply disagree with a brother or sister



this is not to mention the idiots who think not acting like a "junk yard dog" is acting white

who said being a decent human being was being white ? - oh I remember, it was ole master who said that - the dog must be laughing in his grave - he taught us to be his fools so effectively

I really appreciate your response the most, Im extremely shocked no one said this sooner. Thanks sis...

[onelove917]

Originally Posted by Moe17

I really appreciate your response the most, Im extremely shocked no one said this sooner. Thanks sis...

Thank You !

But, please know. I'm a bro.