How Long Are Us "Good-Girls" Supposed To Wait?

[thicksista]

girl sometimes there are guys who's only into looks,and or the body...as a few said up here...i don't know what you look like,(which shouldn't be the main factor in any relationship).but we got to keep it real.there are plenty of superficial people on earth.you're a 21 virgin!...i say good for you girl! first your body's like a ruby,you shouldn't let anyone have it unless they prove they were worth having you.let me ask you this,..and trust me boo ,i'm don't mean to insult you in anyway.because i feel all my sistas are beautiful.but i'm not a guy,do you have a little weight on you? some guys are not into beautiful thick or big females.sad though,because weight makes no one! if that's the case,then baby you don't need them! i'm from the old school,but i've never believed in..."let the guy come to you" .if you see something you want ..go after it,(make sure he isn't someone eles).keep in mind this too...everyone has a preference.and you're not in this along.i've never went after any guy,not really because i was shy,but looks doesn't get me.also you say...you're still a virgin...sounds like you're ready to give it up...if so...don't rush boo,that would only lead you to giving it up to the wrong person.and you don't have to be loose ,because you decided to make the first move.who ever you in up with,make sure you don't allow him to call the shots when it comes to you!..sometimes women who's been waiting so long for someone,let's him dictate her whole life in order to keep him,be strong!...i wish you the best,and you might want to see this ...but it's true,so i have to say it....the right one will come along!

[Moe17]

Originally Posted by thicksista

girl sometimes there are guys who's only into looks,and or the body...as a few said up here...i don't know what you look like,(which shouldn't be the main factor in any relationship).but we got to keep it real.there are plenty of superficial people on earth.you're a 21 virgin!...i say good for you girl! first your body's like a ruby,you shouldn't let anyone have it unless they prove they were worth having you.let me ask you this,..and trust me boo ,i'm don't mean to insult you in anyway.because i feel all my sistas are beautiful.but i'm not a guy,do you have a little weight on you? some guys are not into beautiful thick or big females.sad though,because weight makes no one! if that's the case,then baby you don't need them! i'm from the old school,but i've never believed in..."let the guy come to you" .if you see something you want ..go after it,(make sure he isn't someone eles).keep in mind this too...everyone has a preference.and you're not in this along.i've never went after any guy,not really because i was shy,but looks doesn't get me.also you say...you're still a virgin...sounds like you're ready to give it up...if so...don't rush boo,that would only lead you to giving it up to the wrong person.and you don't have to be loose ,because you decided to make the first move.who ever you in up with,make sure you don't allow him to call the shots when it comes to you!..sometimes women who's been waiting so long for someone,let's him dictate her whole life in order to keep him,be strong!...i wish you the best,and you might want to see this ...but it's true,so i have to say it....the right one will come along!

Nope, I dont have weight on me. Im thin, and I have a shape, but not at all a big girl. I am a VERY shy girl as well, so when I see a guy I like, I can feel my face heat up (i.e. blush).
I know Im not ready to give it up...but if I find the right guy & it happens,then so be it.
But agian, I wasnt writing this reguarding 'sex' just about why the guys dont approach me.