Just Need to Vent Afro Chat Family……

[Sumyr]

ok, ok, i'm a ho.............

If I said it once, I've said it a thousand times - James, you're crazy.....

[Samoon]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

ok, ok, i'm a ho............. :whistling

James! Say it ain't so Bruh! CTHU!!!!!!!!!!! I thought a brotha hung up his gloves "long time now." :whistling

[poeticasylum1]

Originally Posted by Sumyr

PoeticAsylum - Thanks for the honesty. I don't have a problem with men being "ho's"; just let me know in advance so that I won't be investing all of my time and energy into making a beautiful relationship blossom. :)

*taps my sister on the shoulder*
*sighs*

the word commit has a second cousin called admit.
they second cousins because they are distant literally.
for a man to admit he is a ho, is to say he will never commit.
for a man to admit he is a ho and for him to commit eventually...well darling that is a loooooonnnngggg road.
Remember that old Bar Kays tune that says "freedom is a road seldom traveled by the multitude" and I say be free from the stress and let a man "invest" in you.

[Sumyr]

*taps my sister on the shoulder*
*sighs*

the word commit has a second cousin called admit.
they second cousins because they are distant literally.
for a man to admit he is a ho, is to say he will never commit.
for a man to admit he is a ho and for him to commit eventually...well darling that is a loooooonnnngggg road.
Remember that old Bar Kays tune that says "freedom is a road seldom traveled by the multitude" and I say be free from the stress and let a man "invest" in you.

Poeticasylum - That's why I said I "WON'T" be investing all of my time and energy into making a beautiful relationship grow. Even though it took some time, my eyes are wide open; I've graduated....... :graduated

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by Samoon

James! Say it ain't so Bruh! CTHU!!!!!!!!!!! I thought a brotha hung up his gloves "long time now." :whistling

my gloves, but not my eyes. i am a promiscuous eyeballer.

back when i was married, it was a happy time in my life. that black woman, with nappy hair, took good care of me and the kid. we took care of each other. we were happy. my wife was beautiful but after ten years i wanted something different.

the reason i left was that i was getting so much play from the other women (even her girl friends) that i felt i could not honestly be faithful. the women were coming at me and i loved it. i made the decision that i needed sexual variety and i could not do the monogamous thing. i left. those dates that i had that were looking to get married, i told them that i was not the one. i told them to hit me for the booty call but go down to the church and get one of them up right brothers if they want to marry. i never played anyone and because of this i have women who still smile at me and check in to see how i am doing years after the sex died down.

[Sumyr]

my gloves, but not my eyes. i am a promiscuous eyeballer.

back when i was married, it was a happy time in my life. that black woman, with nappy hair, took good care of me and the kid. we took care of each other. we were happy. my wife was beautiful but after ten years i wanted something different.

the reason i left was that i was getting so much play from the other women (even her girl friends) that i felt i could not honestly be faithful. the women were coming at me and i loved it. i made the decision that i needed sexual variety and i could not do the monogamous thing. i left. those dates that i had that were looking to get married, i told them that i was not the one. i told them to hit me for the booty call but go down to the church and get one of them up right brothers if they want to marry. i never played anyone and because of this i have women who still smile at me and check in to see how i am doing years after the sex died down.

James - that's because you are a man and recognized the potential harm you could cause others had you not disclosed this information. You thought with your "big head" and not your "little head" - a vast difference among other males in your genre. Much respect for you - as always. :)

[Samoon]

@ Sumyr--I have to agree with Brotha James. At least he was upfront and let these women know that he was not in it for the long haul, just "a shot of arse" and call it a day. I'm glad that it's ONLY your eyes now James that are promiscuous coupled with maturity and garnering wisdom as there are a hella lot of DISEASES out there these days--mainly the big disease with that big name: AIDS. Be well.

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by Sumyr

James - that's because you are a man and recognized the potential harm you could cause others had you not disclosed this information. You thought with your "big head" and not your "little head" - a vast difference among other males in your genre. Much respect for you - as always. :)

here is the deal. i told the women what i was up for and what i was not. in return i got more nookie than most cats.
you'd be surprised at how many women want to get their business taken care of on a Saturday night.
the point i'm trying to make is that it is not really necessary to lie. i had more fun then the cats that was lying. i never ever talked about my business but the ladies did. i had ladies hook me up with their sisters, more than once.

all this lying is counter productive and a waste of everybody's time.

Originally Posted by Samoon

@ Sumyr--I have to agree with Brotha James. At least he was upfront and let these women know that he was not in it for the long haul, just "a shot of arse" and call it a day. I'm glad that it's ONLY your eyes now James that are promiscuous coupled with maturity and garnering wisdom as there are a hella lot of DISEASES out there these days--mainly the big disease with that big name: AIDS. Be well.

that's one of the reasons i got out of the game. every time i got a hard on she would start talking about disease.
sex is very pleasant, but not to die for. i found the class of sister that i was attracted to simply were no longer sexy.
oh well.

[Celeste]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

... i never played anyone and because of this i have women who still smile at me and check in to see how i am doing years after the sex died down.

:terrific: :cool: