Tired Of All These Big Chicks!!!!!! - AfroChat - African American

blacktruth34 · September 29th, 2006, 01:27 PM

I Kmow i'm probabley gonna catch hell for this one but let's be clear about this . The obesity thing is really out of control and it needs to be told . I don't reall have a problem with big chicks but where i live it seems like that's all there is. I just moved to upstate NY and man listen it's hard to find a descent chick here who's not overweight . I mean they try to hard to look good and they really look at hot *** mess trying to fit all that stuff into some tight jeans or a belly shirt . Hello, you cant wear a belly shirt if you got rolls of stomach stickin out ,that's nasty!!!!!!!!!!Then they got the nerve to think it's all about them . Ibelieve alot of women these days don't know how to dress it up meaning even if they are big it's a comfortable way of dressing without showin all that which nobody wants to see .Again i'm not bashing the big girls but damn get it under control ,you can be a big girl and still be attractive pending on how you carry that weight,i've seen some pretty big girls but it's just not for me i guess . fellas speak out ,women can too !!!

deej42 · September 29th, 2006, 01:50 PM

u r right to a degree....big woman are nice if they dress appropriately...when u see these woman and all there stuff is hanging out it does not look good. we need to teach these people how to dress and make it look good.

September 29th, 2006, 01:52 PM

BBBW, has become to acceptable a term. For me its less about weight and more about health. If you are eating well, exercising and maintaining your health and still overweight then so be it. But I'm not sure that is usually the case.

jamesfrmphilly · September 29th, 2006, 02:23 PM

the same situation in philly. i cannot go out my house without seeing some fat rolls bulging out of hip huggers.
some one has told the ladies that fat looks good.

i like slim athletic women, always have.

the real issue is proper diet and exercise. women have been convinced that they should never sweat.
that, and a junk food diet makes for a fat arse.

i would not want to wife a woman who does not know how to feed the family correctly.
you can look at them and tell that they do not know.

Proudbrothaman · September 29th, 2006, 03:42 PM

I blame this on Monique. She running around telling every big girl who will listen that it's ok to be big. In a way she's right be confident in yourself but on the whole she's dead wrong. Your telling a whole generation to forget about their health, forget Blacks already have hyper tension, diabetes and heart problems. She created a monster with this movement. If you are big then dammit, tuck that ISH in. I have no want or desire to see what you have to offer. For some strange reason bigger women seem to be attracted to thinner guys, I'm about 170-172 thin but athletic. I get more attention from big girls then any other body type out there. Why?

September 29th, 2006, 04:49 PM

It's the same situation in most of our communities. I've seen some pretty disgusting large females around here. They weren't disgusting because of their weight, it was because they had to nerve to have on a 6" skirt and a camisole that was 3 sizes too small. The real sad part is that obviously there are some dude's who find this look acceptable and attractive, or they'd not be doing it so openly and often. These women walk around dressed like this with their heads high and the f you if you don't like it attitude. Some fella(s) helped her reach that state of mind.

Samoon · September 29th, 2006, 05:52 PM

"Less IS more." As one that has very real concerns about the states of health in our black communities, the REAL message needs to bared out---obesity is not pretty and you are setting yourself up for some in the not-too-distant future problems...young or older, take your pick...musculo-skeletal problems (too much fat surrounding joints and I don't mean the one you smoke either!), respiratory problems (unable to walk and breath at the same time, you should be able to carry on a normal conversation comftably and your respiration should not be shallow and rapid nor heavy sweating), fat deposits in the blood vessels (this can be evidenced also when blood is drawn--if you see white deposits "floating" in a vial of blood? That is FAT.) These are a few random example, but what is scary is SEEING our younger bros. and sistas that "carry" this attitude. Bottom line, excess body fat (in most cases, not all) is a sign of an inactive body. And that Dunlap shirt that some men are wearing? If that shirt DONE LAPPED over? You HAVE a gut. And it's not pretty. Nothing more disgusting than to see a male "waddle" up to a woman and try to talk to you. MASCULINE, WHOLESOME BLACK MEN do not waddle!

Anyway...sure it works both ways for male and female. But "kewl" is taking a brisk WALK..even if it's not on the wild side. Okay, now you can toss ya bricks! :) with a Halo! :)

DBlack · September 29th, 2006, 06:18 PM

I'm fat az hell. If you don't like it, don't look my way....

urfan2c · September 29th, 2006, 06:33 PM

No Monique is empowering ppl to accept and love themselves no matter how some ignorant bastards may feel. All the while she does promote leading a healthy and active lifestyle. She works out and eats healthier. Skinny doesn't equal healthy either and some people just can not shed the weight. Everyones body does not react the same way to certain things. Maybe instead of talking out of a blind thought educate yourself on certain illnesses that cause people to gain and not be able to lose. And yes there are some people who just plain ole like to eat. But to be disrespectful about a person b/c of their size shows lack in character.

September 29th, 2006, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by urfan2c

No Monique is empowering ppl to accept and love themselves no matter how some ignorant bastards may feel. All the while she does promote leading a healthy and active lifestyle. She works out and eats healthier. Skinny doesn't equal healthy either and some people just can not shed the weight. Everyones body does not react the same way to certain things. Maybe instead of talking out of a blind thought educate yourself on certain illnesses that cause people to gain and not be able to lose. And yes there are some people who just plain ole like to eat. But to be disrespectful about a person b/c of their size shows lack in character.

Where was there anything disrespectful uttered?