If your spouse/ BF or GF, cheated on you once, would you stay?...or would you leave?

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by bluesky

I've had a boyfriend cheat and it was easy to leave the relationship because after all he's a boyfriend. We had not ties--easy come, easy go.

In situations like yours, I've found that it's best to forget about the dog and find a man who will treat like a queen. Simply, this is due to the fact that men like them never change.

[Corals]

Originally Posted by MrAtlanta

Unfortunately I would have to ask her to pack her bags. As I said before, I refuse to go through all of the changes that some women are capable of putting men through in relationships. There's just no coming back from infidelity in my opinion. Once the trust is broken, it is gone.

Trying to reconcile after an act of infidelity is futile in my opinion.

I totally agree with that. I'm the same, the moment he steps out of line he can continue walking on that same line, hence why I make that clear from the start.

Once that trust has been broken it is very hard to get it back, if ever you do get it back.

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by Corals

the moment he steps out of line he can continue walking on that same line, hence why I make that clear from the start.

Exactly. I am also the same way. As I told Bluesksy, if the man wants to continue to be a cheating dog and continue on the path of wanting to have a relationship with no ties, easy come go then, you let him go and don't waist time on him and get with someone else that will treat you better.

[Serenity4Ever]

Whoever he cheats on me with better be worth it cause there would be no more "us" after I find out about it. I would never be abe to trust him again, so why be with someone you don't think exclusively belongs to you????

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by Serenity4Ever

Whoever he cheats on me with better be worth it cause there would be no more "us" after I find out about it.

Right Sistergirl! Like myself, you're low tolerance of and no cheating dogs are allowed. I feel where you are coming from Serenity.

[Nudimmud9]

Originally Posted by Vegence

I can't even lie I have attempted to stay and work things out. :(



One thing I can say and this has yet to NOT be the case

and that's

once I've been cheated on, the relationship never truly recovers.

So with that being said,

at the age I am at now,

once I've been cheated on the relationship is basically over.

Couldn't have said it any better myself. That's about right how it is.

[MzPhynixRyzn]

Once the trust is broken it is almost impossible to repair. It may be easier to forgive, but forgetting is another issue...

[m2cents]

Originally Posted by 000HONEY

I'm just curious to know your veiws on this topic....
If your spouse/ BF or GF, cheated on you once, would you stay?...or would you leave?
Explain your choice...

If it happened once,it can happen again,although i would'nt say that leaving that person guarantees that you are protected from a re-occurence if you meet someone else.it depends on what you expect out of a relationship and what you are willing to do to achieve that.

[ms.casteele]

if i man cheated on me with another gurl would i stay or leave thats a good question i could honest say i would stay if it only happend once why because i feel like we've been thru some much togerher and we been living together for 2 and a half years we've made our place a happy home and i just would not let another woman come inbetween that, i would not let a woman come in a distroy what we worked so hard to build up.