Thanks for you strength and honesty Nyela. It's telling isn't it that it usually is the woman brave enough to admit her wrong in this instance thread,but usually in life also.
I'll try to regress back on this topic,cuze you were so true with yourself,but first,what is remembrance of love to one person is infatuation,or lust to another just food for thought.
I remember one particular girl,that may have loved me,but it was not voiced,or recipricated in any way by me. Truth here! I actually broke up with this girl after making love,and you know a similar story of flattened tires and windows being broken out of my house,because I hurt a human beings feelings. I got bad karma and all that deservingly so for a few years. I also got good sound advice from the girl I screwed over,cuze i thought i was a player playing. "Nah you're nothing,but a man whoring and putting a notch on your belt. That stuck with me and after realizing there was a force greater than me and making a change spiritually I changed how i viewed and dealt with women. Eventually, I prayed for forgiveness,and asked for a woman to love,as well as the good sense to know what love is and to sustain love.
So, again be wary of what is love to one person is anothers notched belt,unless your both not in love,but I believe,that's a lie also,because love is a need. Pray over it first. Be Blessed and Peace! Sometimes truth hurts!
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