Swinging - AfroChat - African American

Serenity4Ever · December 9th, 2005, 06:50 PM

Lately I've been hearing "swingers" on talk shows say that having sex with other couples bring them closer together as well as help them develop a better understanding about each other. How is this possible? How does bringing other people into your bedroom help you have a deeper relationship with your significant other? Someone explain it to me cause I don't get it. I couldn't lay up there and watch someone else be with my boo..... Could You?

jamesfrmphilly · December 9th, 2005, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Serenity4Ever

Lately I've been hearing "swingers" on talk shows say that having sex with other couples bring them closer together as well as help them develop a better understanding about each other. How is this possible? How does bringing other people into your bedroom help you have a deeper relationship with your significant other? Someone explain it to me cause I don't get it. I couldn't lay up there and watch someone else be with my boo..... Could You?

you just answered your question.
it would not work for you.

"different strokes for different folks" - Sly Stone

JamieC · December 9th, 2005, 08:17 PM

That seems down right dirty and nasty. Ain't no way in h@il I'd do something like that. When I'm

I want it to be from old age. Ain't gonna try something that could kill me sooner.

jamesfrmphilly · December 9th, 2005, 09:21 PM

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That seems down right dirty and nasty. Ain't no way in h@il I'd do something like that. When I'm

I want it to be from old age. Ain't gonna try something that could kill me sooner.

that's funny since you live right in the center of all the activity.

JamieC · December 9th, 2005, 10:08 PM

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that's funny since you live right in the center of all the activity.

Like they say.. what happends in Vegas stays in Vegas... that's on them.. not my problem.

saraphen · December 9th, 2005, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Serenity4Ever

Lately I've been hearing "swingers" on talk shows say that having sex with other couples bring them closer together as well as help them develop a better understanding about each other.

They lie!!! Don't believe a word of it. When you hear about the divorce, it all comes out...He wanted to, she went along to keep him, but it all fell apart in the end. Don't believe all that garbage you hear on talk radio.

jamesfrmphilly · December 10th, 2005, 01:02 AM

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They lie!!! Don't believe a word of it. When you hear about the divorce, it all comes out...He wanted to, she went along to keep him, but it all fell apart in the end. Don't believe all that garbage you hear on talk radio.

those couples who i knew who were into swinging are still happy and content and married. the stereotypes are generally not correct. if it ain't your thang you should probably reserve judgment.

jimihaze · December 10th, 2005, 04:36 AM

I am of the same stroke as serinty4ever. My spouse is my spouse. The question of swinger or swinging is not kosher in this unit. We both look at that as adultery. This goes against the marriage vows. There is a part in there that goes forsaking all others. Remember that part? IF you want to be with or have intercourse with another person besides your mate then what is the point of having a mate or partner or life partner? I also guess that means me and serinty4ever are different folks on the same stroke in this matter.

jamesfrmphilly · December 10th, 2005, 11:30 AM

you guys are the most straight arrow bunch I've seen in some time, but it's all good.
my thing is, live and let live.

Glow · December 10th, 2005, 03:10 PM

ICK! Why get married if you are going to have sex with other folks? Disgusting is the word for it.