Swinging

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by sahara storm

James, I've learned to hold back my err...exploits, because men seem to go by that same creed, defining a woman in relation to her man/her past.

sex seems almost taboo to Black women.

a "good" woman must never go further than her man, else she risks becoming "bad".

nature has made females multi orgasmic, however.

she can look up longer than he can look down, in some cases a lot longer.
what is she to do with this excess capacity? a "good" woman must totally deny it and never touch it for as we all know, the day that women stop defining themselves by their man's capacity will be the end of civilization as we know it.

BTW - women typically enjoy swinging much more than men.

[Truthbetold]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

no "good" woman today desires or requires anything more than what she can get with her husband.

LOL......
LMFAO......


James,

Are you aware that there is a website for married women who want to have sex withsomeone other than their husbands and they have registered membership of over 300,000. I worked for the bank that provided financing for the service. Are you suggesting that these are all "bad" women?

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by Truthbetold

James,

Are you aware that there is a website for married women who want to have sex with someone other than their husbands and they have registered membership of over 300,000. I worked for the bank that provided financing for the service. Are you suggesting that these are all "bad" women?

in the prevailing moral climate, yes, they are "bad".......... :she-devil

[Chelbe]

Swinging.. hmm.. Works for some, but that isn't something I anticipate doing. To answer the question "could I". No.

[Truthbetold]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

in the prevailing moral climate, yes, they are "bad".......... :she-devil

Well I don't know James. I think that morals shift w/ time. Some of us may not like it but it does happen. For instance when my grandmother was a child women who smoked in public were considered "loose". What a ridiculous notion! So it depends on the individual as usual.

Yo James you should get with one of these women on Afrochat. Or better yet go to Destee and get with her. Destee is nice. She has some firm breasts. Don't ask me how I know just go find out for yourself.

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by Truthbetold

I think that morals shift with time.

sure they do, that's why i qualified my statement.

Originally Posted by G.o.d.f.a.t.h.a.

go to Destee and get with her..

been there, done that

[sueQ]

well if it works for some it is cool with me let them do what makes them happy. but I thought it was for only married folks. I would think that it would work better that way. if I were to do that I would want to make sure this situation was safe. if one is not married and they switch partners from time to time how do we all now that it is safe sex one is having. that would be the problem that i would have. with swing and the club thing to many folks to be safe. are they all following the same rules and not having sex with any others out side of this group. I dont mind sex but it has got to be safe sex. there is no taboo with a husband as long as you are not hurting another. and it is for pleasureand all are safe.

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by JamieC

Ain't gonna try something that could kill me sooner.

Agreed. With the spreading of STD's that are going around, you can definitely count me out. You open Pandora's box and you'll pay the consequences. Case Closed.

[ardamus]

Swinging is basically being given the permission to cheat. Or better yet.....sample something that you wouldn't be able to have if you were in the standard US marriage.