how do you tell a relative that they are making a stupid mistake?

[lizaa]

It is actually heart-breaking when I see or hear females being treated this way and the females actually accept this behaviour from a man..she actuallys needs professional help because nothing you say or do is going to change her outlook on him..

Pimpology is her house, he's brainwashed her totally ,something in her younger years created her low-self esteem.

I actually worry about the baby..

I agree with my sisters and brothers on this all you can do is give her some sound advice let her know how you feel once and let it go, and support her.

[goodcookinmama]

lizza your are so right he is going to hit her one too many times and then she might listen to somebody or he hurt one of the kids trying to get to her but until she makes up her own mind its nothing that you can do i know its a bad situtation but she has to make the move to accept it or not

[ms.casteele]

how do you tell a relative that they are making a stupid mistake? (thats a good question because i have a cousin that i chill with who i believe made a bigg mistake shes 21 and shes with a man who is 31 which is not a bigg deal but he has two kids one that he doesnt clam and they got drunk and got married in reno and she didnt tell me, she tried to lie about it, i had to find out thru three other people and i was pissed cause we were tight, and when i asked her about it all she could say was she didnt want to tell becasue she knew i would get on her about it which i would and cause she wanted to do a bigger wedding(i guess) i just feel like she threw her life away she dropped out of school, so what do you do with a relative that is making a bigg mistake let them make it?