What traits ?

[MilitantWombMan]

What traits do you look for in a potential mate?

[robbboy2003]

The physical part is a given,because for men you have a visual attractivness meter in your head. There is the karma trait,or the "Bburn" factor where whenever you're around this person you feel her! It is beyond lust,and after awhile you don't have to be around this person. You and they live in each other. The other traits for me are intelligence, a combination of attitude and compassion. A good heart and common sense.

She has to be honest with a moral code. She has to be fun loving and have integrity. She has to love kids and animals. She must be good with old people. She must humor me,although she may be smarter than i. She has to have the good sense to make me think i win sometimes I have had the Bburn factor so to me it is the biggest trait,because when you're walking around with that much heat in your chest you're never cold,or alone! :)

[jamesfrmphilly]

simple, i look for the same traits that I have.

[Kwayerah]

Strong..Dominant..A Leader by nature.

Good communicator...out of the box thinker... adventurous spirit... family oriented.

I don't want someone who has the same exact traits as me. That's too easy. For example, I'm an introvert so I'd love someone who is an extrovert. It's all about balance....

[Forbidden_Fruit]

I like to look out for traits that I do not find desirable. No matter how intelligent, compassionate and honest a man is, if he is unable to communicate, not willing to compromise or shows no self-control, I'll move on...

[ms.casteele]

i look for someone smart, honest, careing, understanding, reliable, someone that can be my friend as well as my man, some i can depend on no matter what, some one that wants more than what he has out of life.

[Alisha37]

Honesty and good communication skills

I don't look for anything much in particular. Because I like a variety of different women. The only things I kind of "require" is a sense of humor, loving music, and not being meek. Now when looking for that person to spend the rest of my life with, the list is longer.

[isistah]

I love a man who can teach me or show me something new. It can be anything from playing the stock market to golf to cajun cooking.

I'm not sure why that is.