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Old June 30th, 2005, 06:09 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Old March 19th, 2007, 06:41 AM   #22 (permalink)
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what a bunch of prudes


Prudes? No.

Liars? Yes. Especially the other male members who've posted in this thread. I'm quite certain that the sight of two beautiful women "going at it" would drive these brothas insane. And if asked to join in for a threesome, they'd do so with a smile. If two sexy females invited me into their bedroom for a threesome, believe me, as a single male, they probably wouldn't have to ask me twice LOL. Say what you will, but at least I'm being honest about mine.

Two beautiful women, together, completely naked, is THE ultimate fantasy for most heterosexual males. And any heterosexual male who says otherwise just ain't playin' with a full deck, or he's lying his arse off.


Speaking to the men folk here....

It's easy to sit here and pontificate over the internet about what you won't do, but if presented with a real live scenario involving a potential three-way encounter with two beautiful women in YOUR bedroom, I'm pretty sure your actions would run counter to many of the responses given in this thread. So stop lying.


BTW, the sight of two men kissing and petting would definitely make me sick to my stomach to the point where I'd probably vomit. And I mean literally. I don't hate gay people but this is definitely NOT something I'd want to see.


There's a new saying that's going around, and it goes like this:

"I only support gay marriage if BOTH chicks are hot" LOL....
 
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Old March 19th, 2007, 09:44 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Well somebody likes it because it is dominant in the billion dollar porn business.
So are skinny blond white women with fake breasts and with the fat surgically removed from their waists and butts. That doesn't mean everybody that buys the porn is into that sort of thing. It just means this is what the purveyors of porn of pushing.

I mean, really, when you think about, two strangers come together, with no passion whatsoever, only thinking about getting paid, and perform what, at times, has to be painful body pounding, particularly now that doing it from the rear has become obligatory. They are, pretty much all of them, simply horrible actors. Some of them do not even pretend to enjoy what they are doing. It is just .. okay ... off comes the clothes .., but, leave on the heels .. ya done yet? ... cool, now get off me and give me my check!.

No signs of love or affection, just what amounts to constant leering - worship of the flesh. Don't talk to me about love, they seem to say -- just do me.

It is not coincidence that more porn is made and sold in America than anywhere else. America is Babylon - "the habitation of devils, and the hold of every foul spirit".
 
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Old March 19th, 2007, 09:51 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Homosexuality is still a sin by GOD'S LAW-visually looking {porn} engaging in the act is homosexuality.PERIOD.I'm a realist. Why sugar coat this ? women kissing each other in the mouth and other various places is a homosexual act..men engaging in sexual encounters with each other is a homosexual act and GOD destroyed an entire city because they violated HIS LAWS.that was an example of HIS ANGER against homosexual acts.videos are also soft porn- I've seen women kissing each other and other various acts are going on in the music videos.can you tell I'm against homosexuality.Anyone engaging in sexual acts with various partners need to get tested for HIV..to protect theirselves as well as others.
It's refreshing to see someone look at this subject from religious perspective disregarding all of the Politically Correct BS that shoved down are throats on a daily basis.

In addition to people getting checked for HIV, they also need to be check for HPV:
Human Papilloma Virus ( Click on Well Project Link Below)

by Shari Margolese
July 2003 (Reviewed and Revised July 2006)
The Well Project: HPV and HIV

What is HPV?
Human Papillomavirus (HPV) is the most common sexually transmitted disease (STD) in the United States. About 6.2 million Americans become infected with genital HPV every year and over 50% of all sexually active men and women become infected with HPV at some time in their lives. One study found HPV in 77 percent of HIV+ women.




There are about 30 types of HPV that are transmitted by sexual activity. These types can infect the genital area – the vulva, vagina, cervix, anus, and penis. Different types of HPV cause warts or abnormal cell growth (dysplasia). More than 95% of cervical cancers have been shown to be associated with HPV types 16, 18, 31, 33, and 45. HPV may also cause cancer in the vagina, vulva, and anus.




HPV is transmitted easily through skin-to-skin contact during vaginal or anal sex with someone who has the infection. Condoms do not totally prevent transmission. Many people who have HPV don’t know it because they have no symptoms. However, it can still be passed on to someone else.




Because HPV is a virus, there is no cure for it. However, the conditions or symptoms of HPV are treatable. A vaccine called Gardasil was recently approved for the prevention of four types of HPV: types 6, 11, 16, and 18.



Genital Warts
Certain types of HPV will cause external genital warts on the vulva, penis, or around the anus. Warts can appear anywhere from a few weeks to a few months after you are exposed to HPV.




Symptoms:

Red, pinkish, or white warts that look like growths, bumps, or small cauliflowers
Diagnosis:

Doctor can usually identify genital warts by looking at them
Sometimes a biopsy is done (a sample of the suspected wart is cut off and examined under a microscope)
Treatment:

Since HPV is a virus, there is no cure for it, but it can be treated by removing the wart
The following treatments must be done in the doctor’s office:
- TCA (trichloracetic acid) treatment – a chemical is applied to the surface of the wart on a weekly basis to break it down
- Cryotherapy – freezing off the wart with liquid nitrogen (may mask future problems*)
- Electrocautery – burning off the wart with an electrical current
- Laser therapy – using an intense light to destroy the wart
- Excision – cutting the wart out
Some treatments can be done at home with prescription creams (these should not be used by pregnant women)
Warts can reappear after successful treatment
Many HIV+ women, especially those with low CD4 cell counts, may respond poorly to standard therapies. Several different HPV treatments may be needed.



Dysplasia and Cervical Cancer
Certain types of HPV can cause abnormal cells to form. This is called dysplasia. Dysplasia is more common in women with advanced HIV disease and low CD4 cell counts. It is often more severe and difficult to treat than in HIV- women.



The main place dysplasia occurs is on the cervix. Other less common areas are the vagina, vulva, and anus. Dysplasia is not cancer, but if left untreated, it can develop into cancer.




Cervical cancer can be life threatening. It is one of the few AIDS-defining conditions specific to women. However, it can be prevented through early diagnosis and treatment.




Symptoms:

Many women do not experience symptoms
In very advanced stages, a woman may experience pain, vaginal discharge, and bleeding between periods
Diagnosis:

Pap smears (a Pap smear is a screening test your doctor does to check for changes in the cervix)
An abnormal Pap smear can indicate inflammation, infection, dysplasia, or cancer
If you have an abnormal Pap, you may need a colposcopy (an exam of your cervix using a microscope to look at the tissue more closely)
HIV+ women are 10 times more likely to have abnormal Pap smears than HIV- women
The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) recommend that:
- HIV+ women have a complete gynecological examination, including a Pap smear, when they are first diagnosed or when they first seek prenatal care
- HIV+ women have another Pap six months later
- If both tests are negative, yearly screening is recommended
- Women who have symptomatic HIV infection or who have had dysplasia in the past should receive a Pap smear every six months
A new HPV test is starting to be used in conjunction with Pap smears to detect cancerous and precancerous conditions
Treatment for dysplasia:

Most treatments for dysplasia focus on destroying the abnormal tissue so that it doesn't progress to cancer.

Electro-cauterization
Laser therapy
Cold-knife cone biopsy
Loop electric excision procedure (LEEP)
Cryotherapy (may mask future problems*)
In cases of mild dysplasia, the doctor may just monitor the cervix by colposcopy, repeat Pap, or HPV test
Treatment of cervical cancer:

Surgery
Radiation
*Recent studies have raised concerns about cryotherapy, which involves freezing off the warts or abnormal cells. It can cause normal tissue to heal over deeper areas of dysplasia, and therefore future screenings may appear normal while abnormal tissue is actually growing below the healing tissue.



Dysplasia and Anal Cancer
Certain strains of HPV may also cause dysplasia and cancer in the anus. Although the risk of developing dysplasia is higher among men who have sex with men, women are also at risk, especially those with HIV infection or a history of anal intercourse.




Symptoms:

May be no symptoms
Anal bleeding, irritation, itching, or a burning sensation
In very advanced stages, there may be abscesses, lumps, ulcers, and anal discharge
Diagnosis:

Anal Pap smear
If you have an abnormal Pap, you may need an anoscopy (an exam of the anus using a microscope to look at the tissue more closely)
Physical examination
It is important to ask your doctor to perform these tests on a regular basis
Treatment:

Same as treatment for dysplasia and cervical cancer (see section above)


HPV and HIV
HIV+ people are more likely to be infected with HPV than HIV- people. One study found HPV in 77 percent HIV+ women. Because of immune suppression, HIV+ women are more likely to have:

Chronic HPV infection
Infection with the HPV strains more likely to cause cancer
HPV in both the cervix and anus
Several strains of HPV at once
Reactivated HPV infections that were previously under control
HPV that responds poorly to standard therapies – multiple treatments using different methods may be needed


Prevention of HPV
In June, 2006, the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) approved a vaccine called Gardasil for prevention of cervical cancer. The vaccine is approved for girls and women who are 9 - 26 years of age. Gardasil is effective in preventing cervical cancer caused by HPV types 16 and 18, which cause approximately 70% of all cervical cancers and in preventing infection with HPV types 6 and 11, which cause approximately 90% of all genital warts. Gardasil is a recombinant vaccine (contains no live virus) that is given as 3 injections over a 6-month period. However, women who are already infected with HPV are not protected by the vaccine. Also, Gardasil does not protect against less common HPV types not included in the vaccine. Therefore, doctors still recommend regular Pap smears to detect changes in the cervix (dysplasia) before they become cancerous, so that women can receive treatment before cervical cancer develops. When dysplasia is detected and treated early, cervical cancer can be prevented.



Taking Care of Yourself
HPV can be very serious for HIV+ people. Since there are frequently no symptoms, regular monitoring by your doctor and gynecologist is the best way to ensure that any problems are detected and treated before they progress.
 
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Old March 19th, 2007, 10:01 AM   #25 (permalink)
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So are skinny blond white women with fake breasts and with the fat surgically removed from their waists and butts. That doesn't mean everybody that buys the porn is into that sort of thing. It just means this is what the purveyors of porn of pushing.

I mean, really, when you think about, two strangers come together, with no passion whatsoever, only thinking about getting paid, and perform what, at times, has to be painful body pounding, particularly now that doing it from the rear has become obligatory. They are, pretty much all of them, simply horrible actors. Some of them do not even pretend to enjoy what they are doing. It is just .. okay ... off comes the clothes .., but, leave on the heels .. ya done yet? ... cool, now get off me and give me my check!.

No signs of love or affection, just what amounts to constant leering - worship of the flesh. Don't talk to me about love, they seem to say -- just do me.
Porn is the equivalent of a one night stand (hit it and quit it leave in the morning). At the end of the day, sex is not only physical but it's mental as well. Ultimate satisfaction comes not only by making love to the body, but to the mind as well.
 
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Old March 24th, 2007, 02:18 PM   #26 (permalink)
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I think it's dull, and about as interesting as watching cement grow.
thank you.

I hate the new generation of trendy lesbians/bisexual sistas... they automatically get rejected in my book.
 
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Homosexuality is a sin along with adultry (which is what threesomes are). A lot of men are quick to talk about how they would jump at the chance to have a threesome with 2 women, but a lot of men will never admit how they feel after the threesome. Afterwards men realize that their woman has just had sex with someone else and probably enjoyed it. Then the men start feeling insecure and regret the decision. It ruins relationships. Frankly it's disgusting.
 
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Homosexuality is a sin along with adultery (which is what threesomes are). A lot of men are quick to talk about how they would jump at the chance to have a threesome with 2 women, but a lot of men will never admit how they feel after the threesome. Afterwords men realize that their woman has just had sex with someone else and probably enjoyed it. Then the men start feeling insecure and regret the decision. It ruins relationships. Frankly it's disgusting.
Well Said Brotha Terrence. You broke it all the down from a religious perspective and said what atheists think.
 
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it dosen't turn me on, just 2 people of the same sex having sex
 
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