Relationship Killerz.......?

[MrAtlanta]

Originally Posted by Corals

You can even end up lying about a lie.

....and that's when they begin to lose track of the lies they've already told. Then it gets ridiculous.

[Corals]

Originally Posted by MrAtlanta

....and that's when they begin to lose track of the lies they've already told. Then it gets ridiculous.

That is so, and because of losing track they find it hard to distinguish the lie from the truth.

Definitely agree with the lies. Most of the time there is no getting past that and for me with the trust factor out the window thus goes the relationship.

I also flee from possessivness. I hate being controlled and have no tolerance for control freaks. Not to mention possessiveness usually suggests self esteem issues- which is another relationship killer- and also trust issues- another relationship killer- and I can't put up with any of that.

And one other thing, if a woman seems to have a problem putting her friends and family in check when they overstep their bounds, this kills the relationship because I refuse to be in a relationship with a woman and her parents and her bestfriend and her siblings. I don't need anyone questioning me about my relationship or sticking their nose in anything that has to do with me. A quick way for a female to bite the dust.

[WellSpoken]

I hate all and have other pet peeves, but lying is at the top of the list

[sonflour_2001]

Drama. There's a quote somewhere..."no matter what happens, someone will always find a way to take it too seriously." Yeah, a lot of guys like drama, and as a female...I don't. Keep things simple. Oh yeah, and lies are nothing but drama.

Sonflour

[robbboy2003]

Lost of love is a given in a relationship,but for young relationships lost of respect can be crippling. It feeds everything else outside of love.How can you stay with someone you can't respect? Really, how can you even lov'em?

[saraphen]

Being emotionally absent. When I needed a "safe place to fall" and he wasn't there, and didn't understand why he should be there...I was outta there.

[RaInEdomThoughtz]

Ok, Ill agree with the consensus: Lying is a killer, as well as
Bad Hygiene
Bad Breath
Rotten Teeth
Bad Sex
Insecurity
Twenty...Thirty hundred children with Twenty....Thirty Five hundred childrens mothers
Financial instability
Indecisiveness



......Ill be back later

[LadyNoir]

Originally Posted by MsBody1978

I hate a man that will tell a lie when you know they are lying and they try to convince you that they are not lying. I hate that mess

AMEN, Sister. Hate it!