Is it or isn't it about looks?

[UglymanCometh]

It's actually more about looks for women. Brothas might check out Toya with that big booty walkin down the street, but they'll much more likely settle down with that silly ol girl from their chemistry class.

When I was dating, I actually stayed AWAY from the stereotypical "sexy" sistas. I wanted the quiet bookish type, and looks hardly had anything to do with it... they just had more class and intellect.

[blacktruth34]

i somewhat agree on that ,i mean it's about looks because you want someone who will compliment your good looks and you'll feel comfortable doin whatever with this person in the public. why wouldn't you want someone with good looks. but you have to be careful because what really sets it all off is that persons personality and she could be lookin like janet jackson but her personality is nasty and it stinks .would you still settle for her . personality is very high on the list for me . i mean your not gonna get the most handsome or beautiful all the time , you may have a diffrent preference than the other person as well. he might be cute to you but ugly to your friend is that gonna stop you from seeing him because of your friends opinion.i think most women are afraidof what thier homegirl gonna think if she likes the ordinary dude and not the flashy dope boy .looks are high on the list but personality goes further!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[jamesfrmphilly]

you'd be surprised how good some women look laying on their back in a dimly lit bed room.

[robbboy2003]

I think God gives you what you ask for. You can be given the gift of a beautiful, sexy, and wise wife. Along with that comes the responsibility of having discernment in keeping the Blessed flames blazing! :)

[The Dragon]

When you first see a person you see "looks" and not personality, character, and so many other inner qualities that really count when it comes to choosing a mate or a partner. Good looks may get your attention but most folks require those inner qualities to surface to determine a "keeper." The "keeper" might be the one that did not look so hot to you at first but you decided to give them a change.

Now, hygiene is a separate issue. I don't care how physically good looking you are, if you don't keep yourself and your breath is stinky you can forget it!! Hygiene has got to be on par for me, and I mean at all times!!

I have a weakness for goodlooking men! I like em younger too. Gosh, why oh why?? If I would relax my standards some I probably could have been found me somebody, on the serious side.

I love tall, slim, hard bodied guys with that DeAngelo type, ram/aries look to their face.

Lord, help me!!

Yea looks are important at first; But a broke, unambitious, selfish, lazy, dog of a type man can no longer get any love from me!! I don't care how darn good you look.

[MakaVeli_Pac]

Alot of Women and Men got messed up too by going after a person by looks and end up in someone clinic finding out they have AIDs or STDs. SOmetimes when we judge a person it's not for the right reasons. Only Humans Judge the outside,but God Judges your heart

[goodcookinmama]

yep men tend to look at a womans body more then anything else my uncle married my aunt because he said she chould keep a good house and cook well before he married her he was datin a woman that had a bangin body the whole works heads whould turn when he was with her but he said that she was not wife material
now my aunts not fat or ulgy and she can turn some heads of her own just not like the other one my aunts not a wiggley woman so men yall are missing out on a lot of good women by lookin for the wiggley ones

[love2talk]

I've noticed a lot of the really, really good looking women (at least in my neck of the woods) are high-maintenance, ghettofied women. I think everyone wants someone they're attracted to, so at least they don't feel they're missing out. However, good looks isn't limited to long flowy hair, double-D's, tiny waist, light eyes, and a bubble butt. A lot of women feel that cause they look good, they can have any guy they want, and maybe they can, but it likely won't be someone that may stick around once he sees the next fine chick. You can get by on looks for about 15 minutes; after that you'd better know something.

[RaInEdomThoughtz]

I think initially you have to be kind of attracted to the person. Regardless of if you're a woman or a man. However, I think women are more able to see beyond the looks and fall in love with the person based on mental and emotional stimulation moreso than men are.

[Malia Niara]

Greetings,
As a new member here, I am surprising myself by posting so soon but this topic has been coming up a lot lately, therefore I feel compelled to give my take on this matter. Personally a persons aura is what attracts me to them. The only thing that can really turn me off about a man physically are bad teeth. He can be fat, skinny, bald, loc'd, braided, short, tall, even have some sort of a physical handicap, it would all be good as long as his teeth were in order. My question to people who place importance on physicalities is this: if that beautiful/fine mate of yours was to become dismembered or disabled, does that mean that you would leave them? If you were blind like Stevie or Ray, how do you then pick your mate? Just some things to ponder, and I really would appreciate some replies to my questions.......until then.............
Peace