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MadameX · July 14th, 2008, 01:25 PM

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Just out of curiosity are all the posters who posted prior to my post married.

My Graham Cracker Eating Sista that'll be 4 you to find out while, we keep doing what we're doing together so well. Now, Marinate on that.

JamieC · July 14th, 2008, 01:41 PM

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My Graham Cracker Eating Sista that'll be 4 you to find out while, we keep doing what we're doing together so well. Now, Marinate on that.

MadameX you almost made me spit out my Diet Pepsi Max.

MadameX · July 14th, 2008, 01:55 PM

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I don't think that is totally fair. What about the female that DOESN"T know he is married? Many self respecting women date married men and not all married men promise to ever leave their wife and some woman are fine with that. I am not one of those women, but there was a time in my life where I fell for a man who was married and also lived out of state. Found out much later that he had a wife and child at home when she called me. When your feelings are involved, sometimes it's hard to walk away, but I had no choice but to do exactly that. I can be honest, it didn't happen right away, but it did happen. Sometimes you can't help who you connect with especially if you are shown the full deck from jump. Getting in that situation was not planned and not something I'm proud of....but I have plenty self respect for myself which is why I have moved on.

My Graham Cracker Sista, its unfortuate that a sad purple wearing history of 3 supposedly legal Love TKO's Along Graham Central Station Shotgun Wedding was eventually your demise along with a plague of bad Karma.

InnerCityRose · July 14th, 2008, 03:49 PM

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My Graham Cracker Sista, its unfortuate that a sad purple wearing history of 3 supposedly legal Love TKO's Along Graham Central Station Shotgun Wedding was eventually your demise along with a plague of bad Karma.

Ha...it's a little early to be hittin the bottle.but whatever. Like I said, I didn't know and feelings were involved but I am no longer involved with this person..so you marinate on that.

InnerCityRose · July 14th, 2008, 03:53 PM

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Married 20 years. That's why I said I "CAN'T" relate and our relationshhip is wonderful so we don't have to worry about stepping out on one another. Just my two cents

That's wonderful... I am not knocking maritul relationships, I was just curious since everyone was knocking the other woman. There are some who go after only married men (and I can understand the no self respect label in this case) but others fall into situations they are unaware of until..........

InnerCityRose · July 14th, 2008, 04:01 PM

Let me just also add... a man doesn't have to be in a bad marriage to cheat on his wife. They could have a really great relationship with their wife and never have any intentions to leave her but that DOESN'T mean that he won't step out here and there. I have and continue to get hit on by more married men then I care to mention...all saying the same bullsh*t... "no one has to know..no one gets hurt". I just shake my head and keep it moving..but I said all that to say this... NO one is above cheating..good relationship at home or not.

MadameX · July 14th, 2008, 04:58 PM

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[I]Ha...it's a little early to be hittin the bottle[/i].but whatever. Like I said, I didn't know and feelings were involved but I am no longer involved with this person..so you marinate on that.

Sistagirl, you've got to remember what you told me previously offline when used talk regularly more candidly. It was your hitting of the bottle which got you in the dilema. And if you supposedly got over your feelings then, why project your miscomming on others.

Here's some word of advice. Just say no to the bottle and graham crackers in the near future and you'll do fine. Try wiping yourself properly after a future bowel movements. Because, if you delt it then, you'll have to smell it. So you mariante on that my paisely purple wearing graham cracker eating Sistergirl. All the best. Peace Be Unto To.

JamieC · July 14th, 2008, 05:06 PM

With all this marianteing going on we might have to throw some ribs and chicken on the grill. Chill folks!! It's just another one of those topics where everyone states their opinions so PLEASE let's not get hot headed and calling people names. Let's play nice.

MadameX · July 14th, 2008, 05:28 PM

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With all this marianteing going on we might have to throw some ribs and chicken on the grill. Chill folks!! It's just another one of those topics where everyone states their opinions so PLEASE let's not get hot headed and calling people names. Let's play nice.

Sister Jamie, there's no harm done. It's Just some brutally honest Sistagirl love going done on both sides. And as a realist, my fellow Fros @ know that we still have more important struggle aheads with injustice that we have to battle before as a people especially with the media putting up sambo like pictures on magazine covers b/c they perceive the union of Black Man & Women as threat.

Here's some examples

InnerCityRose · July 14th, 2008, 05:54 PM

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Sistagirl, you've got to remember what you told me previously offline when used talk regularly more candidly. It was your hitting of the bottle which got you in the dilema. And if you supposedly got over your feelings then, why project your miscomming on others.

Here's some word of advice. Just say no to the bottle and graham crackers in the near future and you'll do fine. Try wiping yourself properly after a future bowel movements. Because, if you delt it then, you'll have to smell it. So you mariante on that my paisely purple wearing graham cracker eating Sistergirl. All the best. Peace Be Unto To.

I think you may have me confused with someone else, seriously. I have no idea of what you are talking about, nor have I ever had any offline conversations with you. There is only couple of people who knew about my situation and they both live right here in CT.

I'm not projecting anything, just stating my opinion. I took offense to the statement "no self respecting woman" which is what led me to post in the first place. Both sides are to blame, but women are so quick to blame the other woman, when in many cases the men chased after and initiated the situation. Again..both are to blame.