Relationship Deal Breakers

[serene]

Not sure if this was done in here already, but what are your absolute deal breakers for you when it comes to relationships

funky breath!! na,but seriously for me it has to be not being honest, having very warped morals, i mean I am all about a persons happiness, but if it starts out with just me and you,then if you need something else or someone else,then let a brother go..let a brother go..lol. Im sorry, have I said too much..

[afrocentric]

Originally Posted by skiz

funky breath!! na,but seriously for me it has to be not being honest, having very warped morals, i mean I am all about a persons happiness, but if it starts out with just me and you,then if you need something else or someone else,then let a brother go..let a brother go..lol. Im sorry, have I said too much..

[StJohn1726]

Originally Posted by serene

Not sure if this was done in here already, but what are your absolute deal breakers for you when it comes to relationships

Lack of independent decision making.

1. Ask me for my opinion, but don't ask me to make choices for you.
2. Keeping up with the Jones'. Determine your own level of success and aspire to that. Buy a Benz because it's a very well engineered sedan and not because your sister and her husband just bought one.
3. If you're happy in any situation you choose to be in, don't let others determine what steps you should take next by succumbing to their charges of you being dumb or stupid. You have to live with your choices; they don't.

If I witness much of any of these, I'm out.

[serene]

For me, its lack of ambition, and no goals.

Don't want a guy who doesn't get along and/or respect his mother. (I'm willing to listen if he has a really good reason though)

And guys with bad a teeth. The grill is a pet peeve of mine, and i just couldn't.

Talkers and not doers. Its one thing to talk about what you wanna do and what you want. And it another thing, if your doing somthing about those things.

[soulfulempress]

I have to go with the no teeth thing also...so unnattractive....

Body odor.....i went through this one time I smelled that man and that was the LAST time he was ever in my place

Wack sex....well that is if its wack and you arent willing to try and satisfy me that just means your selfish and I dont have time for that

Being fickle...you never do what you say you are gonna do...that mess is infuriating... a real man stands by his word!!

[blackisbeautiful]

I hate liars, and i am not with the whole baby mama drama. some woman just don't know when to let go. I like god fearing, goal oriented, love your mama, funny, honest, but you should not be a punk either. I hate soft guys. I am not saying you can't be a little sensitive, but too much sensitivity turns me off.

[Lenn777]

Girls who only want money and aren't willing to grow spiritually and financially with you.

[darkshadow4563]

Weak men. I like strength. I have to able to see that in a man.

[InnerCityRose]

Honesty and Respect.