Men who don't cheat: Why not? List reasons.

[RealTalk3000]

some women just like Doggish Men. No matter how bad he is to her, she will deal with his BS and that make it bad for the good men, and women wonder why they cant ever find a good man. Being bad seems to work

[MadameX]

[Istlota]

Originally Posted by MadameX

I know it is painful to seriously deal with this, rather than just throw blame around. But, keep in mind that it was you who opened this pandora's box.

This is a discussion we better all have if there is ever going to be a day when most black kids no longer grow up in a home without a live in father.

For years, sistas, and black men, have been referring to black men as dogs. Obama, apparently, has concluded that most of us black men are dogs.

For years, black men, and black women, have been calling sistas b*tch*s and hos.

For years, we have all been calling each other n*gg*rs.

It is unrealistic to think that black people could grow up in a racist culture like America and not end up despising ourselves and our mates. This is not because black man are dogs, nor is it because black women are b*tch*es. It is because we have all been programmed [even Obama] to hate ourselves and everyone who looks like us.

Now, we could go on as we been doing --- blaming everybody but me, me, me.

Or, we could all look in the mirror and start working on the person looking back at us.

[MadameX]

I know it is painful to seriously deal with this, rather than just throw blame around. But, keep in mind that it was you who opened this pandora's box.
me.

Or, we could all look in the mirror and start working on the person looking back at us.

I see verbal diarrhea is running rampant today along with your twisted diseased philosophies. You can't fool everybody on the net all the time with you banter b/c we know you all to well through most of your years. Here just carry on eating your candy, graham crackers and talk amongst the other aliases that seem to miraculous appear out know where to go along with propaganda you spitting. And remember that inside the industry and out, all are watching. Peace , I'm Out.

[Amico]

There are men who DON'T cheat? Ahaha, good one.

Seriously though, what good could come of it?

[afrocentric]

what's wrong with the fact that men don't cheat?

[WrningSgn]

This is my first post.

I was in a relationship with a woman for 5 years, and never cheated on her. I honestly felt like I wanted the "ideal life." I wanted the good family, and successful kids. Getting some action on the side did not fit into my plans. Plus she is a very beautiful women.

I am like many children of divorce decided that when I get married, I was not going to get a divorce. That is one of the reasons why when we did break it off. If its not a good base, no need to build a house on it.

[Ascension2012]

Back in the day, I messed around and it was cool during the "hunt" phase and the sex itself was good, most of the time....but in that instant afterwards, there was nothing there....no thrill, no lust, no connection...nothing.

Then the realization hits....I just risked hurting and/or losing someone I care about......for nothing.

I won't lie....I still played around as a single man, but when I got married, it made no sense to risk everything for nothing.

[onelove917]

Originally Posted by Istlota

Obama, apparently, has concluded that most of us black men are dogs.

This is too bad, some one should tell Obama (& some others) that four million black men in America are married to a black women.

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by onelove917

This is too bad, some one should tell Obama (& some others) that four million black men in America are married to a black women.

Agreed.Statics are not always accurate.