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Old June 9th, 2008, 10:48 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Men who cheat: Why? List reasons

I don't expect you to play yourself out. If you're S/O reads this forum, this question isn't for you. Just want direct and honest answers to a question all hetero women want to ask us but sometimes don't.
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Old June 25th, 2008, 02:42 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I have several good friends that cheat and some that don't.

The pattern I've noticed is that the fellas that are truly happy and secure in their relationship and more importantly, with themselves, don't have that craving to step out.

The crazy thing is, those are the same qualities that attract the kind of women that would gladly creep with you. It's a hard world, indeed.
 
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Old July 12th, 2008, 01:21 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Sometimes people are just curious to see if they still got it.
 
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Old July 12th, 2008, 10:58 AM   #4 (permalink)
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men's reasons why.......

1...no love in the relationship.... the water done run dry in the well.

2...hardly no sex involved.... somebody is not giving it up.

3...throwing money away is a problem in relationships.

4...doubts about each other.....i'm pretty sure some of yall know what that means.
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Old July 12th, 2008, 08:41 PM   #5 (permalink)
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got what?
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Old July 13th, 2008, 12:12 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I don't believe that it is really in a mans nature to be monogamous, no matter how good his relationship is with his s/o. Although I think it can be done I still don't believe it is totally natural for a man.
 
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Old July 13th, 2008, 11:42 AM   #8 (permalink)
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got what?
The ability to pull someone like you.
 
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The ability to pull someone like you.
and your point is?
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Old July 13th, 2008, 12:33 PM   #10 (permalink)
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and your point is?
That was the point. Some men cheat just to see if they can cheat.
 
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