Men who cheat: Why? List reasons - AfroChat - African American

StJohn1726 · June 9th, 2008, 09:48 PM

I don't expect you to play yourself out. If you're S/O reads this forum, this question isn't for you. Just want direct and honest answers to a question all hetero women want to ask us but sometimes don't.

Ascension2012 · June 25th, 2008, 01:42 PM

I have several good friends that cheat and some that don't.

The pattern I've noticed is that the fellas that are truly happy and secure in their relationship and more importantly, with themselves, don't have that craving to step out.

The crazy thing is, those are the same qualities that attract the kind of women that would gladly creep with you. It's a hard world, indeed.

True · July 12th, 2008, 12:21 AM

Sometimes people are just curious to see if they still got it.

afrocentric · July 12th, 2008, 09:58 AM

men's reasons why.......

1...no love in the relationship.... the water done run dry in the well.

2...hardly no sex involved.... somebody is not giving it up.

3...throwing money away is a problem in relationships.

4...doubts about each other.....i'm pretty sure some of yall know what that means.

afrocentric · July 12th, 2008, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by True

Sometimes people are just curious to see if they still got it.

got what?

The Dragon · July 12th, 2008, 11:12 PM

I don't believe that it is really in a mans nature to be monogamous, no matter how good his relationship is with his s/o. Although I think it can be done I still don't believe it is totally natural for a man.

MadameX · July 13th, 2008, 12:33 AM

True · July 13th, 2008, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by afrocentric

got what?

The ability to pull someone like you.

afrocentric · July 13th, 2008, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by True

The ability to pull someone like you.

and your point is?

True · July 13th, 2008, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by afrocentric

and your point is?

That was the point. Some men cheat just to see if they can cheat.

June 9th, 2008, 09:48 PM	#1 (permalink)
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June 25th, 2008, 01:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
Ascension2012 Afro Resident Occasional 2Cents Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: SF Bay Area Gender: Posts: 35 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Rep Power: 0 Credits: 324	I have several good friends that cheat and some that don't. The pattern I've noticed is that the fellas that are truly happy and secure in their relationship and more importantly, with themselves, don't have that craving to step out. The crazy thing is, those are the same qualities that attract the kind of women that would gladly creep with you. It's a hard world, indeed.

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True Afr0 Resident Occasional 2Cents Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Los Angeles Gender: Posts: 44 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Rep Power: 0 Credits: 368	Sometimes people are just curious to see if they still got it.

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The Dragon Afro Resident Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Around the way Gender: Posts: 1,433 Thanks: 417 Thanked 373 Times in 275 Posts Rep Power: 40 Credits: 8,195	I don't believe that it is really in a mans nature to be monogamous, no matter how good his relationship is with his s/o. Although I think it can be done I still don't believe it is totally natural for a man.