Men who cheat: Why? List reasons

[blackisbeautiful]

I believe that men can be faithful if they really wanted to be, but some of them still want to run around and act like teenagers.

[furious styles]

one simple answer, no mental connection

[Voluptuous Miss]

I know I'm really late about this topic but here's the reason why men cheat, in my opinion...ya'll ready...simply because THEY CAN!!!

Don't get me wrong, I do not co-sign this AT ALL, but some women with low self esteem will continually forgive their cheating men...thus giving them a reason to keep cheating. In this society, a women that cheats is belittled and called a hoe, and a man that cheats gets a slap on the wrist, and is called a Mack. If their women are just going to turn around and take them back and they face no ridicule among those who know about the cheating...they will probably do it again, and again until someone gets tired of playing the fool.

Originally Posted by Voluptuous Miss

I know I'm really late about this topic but here's the reason why men cheat, in my opinion...ya'll ready...simply because THEY CAN!!!

Don't get me wrong, I do not co-sign this AT ALL, but some women with low self esteem will continually forgive their cheating men...thus giving them a reason to keep cheating. In this society, a women that cheats is belittled and called a hoe, and a man that cheats gets a slap on the wrist, and is called a Mack. If their women are just going to turn around and take them back and they face no ridicule among those who know about the cheating...they will probably do it again, and again until someone gets tired of playing the fool.

yes thats soo true, good points there...

[Treazzure007]

men are very sexual creatures by nature among many other things... god made them missing a few screws b/c that was needed in order for the world to go round and according to plan

[JamieC]

Originally Posted by True

That was the point. Some men cheat just to see if they can cheat.

Is that right? Then wake up a few days later with a growth on their testicles and wonders where in the hell it came from.......you're kidding right? A shot doesn't take care of the boo boo any longer nor does a two or three day supply of "BE GONE PILLS". Makes me want to throw up my hands on this note because you can't call up the last 3 chicks you had an affair with and say "Baby, ya know we gotta talk"? The first thing she's going to say is "About What Sugah"? You then tell her, "I'm on my way to your place, this is serious". She tells you. "Not tonight, my FRIEND is here"

Light Bulb goes off doesn't it????????

Makes no sense. When both parties are involved and you love or truly care for that person, there's no reason to cheat. There's not enough ***k out there in the world for me to cheat on my guy and he won't do that to me. How do I know this? Ummm let me count the ways.

1. We both have respect for one another
2. We love one another unconditionally
3. We share our space and not nagging or around each other all the time
4. We don't have to follow one another around all the time
5. The sex is great
6. There's a trust factor.

Now if you were to ask my 23 yr old son why men cheat he could give you 1,000 reasons. That's because he's not quite an adult yet, lives with his so-called girlfriend and doesn't have anything else to do with his life except work, go home, and play Wii. Gee I hope he comes into adulthood real soon.

It takes two to tangle and if a man or woman cheats, it's something they brought among themselves. It's like a dirty, filthy dish towel. You can only wash so many dishes until the rag starts to wilt, shread, and gets so tarnished you have to throw it away. In other words.

DON'T CHEAT!!!

[RealTalk3000]

One thing i dont understand is why do women complain that men cheat,but they take the same men back?

[desantana]

we are traditionaly polygamist from the ancient time of egypt,alot of black men got it deep inside of them....men is a creature located between animal and angel ,the multiplication of loving adventures come from the animal side,its a pulsion...but the honoration of only one queen come from the angel side....polygamism its consider like a bad thing in the white modern society conception,so the most of the women cannot accept it,but man still pratice it...maybe it could be an explanation
(sorry for my bad english,its not my maternal language)
salaam black people

[Yossie]

Originally Posted by StJohn1726

I don't expect you to play yourself out. If you're S/O reads this forum, this question isn't for you. Just want direct and honest answers to a question all hetero women want to ask us but sometimes don't.

If the other chick is hotter or haves a better personality than my current one...simple

Originally Posted by Treazzure007

men are very sexual creatures by nature among many other things... god made them missing a few screws b/c that was needed in order for the world to go round and according to plan

youre funny!... Id like to know what this plans is to be honest??