Sex as a GIFT - AfroChat - African American

MrDby · May 10th, 2008, 09:57 PM

Is giving someone sex as a gift meaningful? Is it appropriate?

Just curious as to what everyone thought.

*Question asked by a member on my site..so i thought I see what were your views were*

Corals · May 11th, 2008, 07:10 AM

..and the madness never stops.

MrDby · May 11th, 2008, 10:05 AM

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..and the madness never stops.

huh?

mlr710 · May 11th, 2008, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Corals

..and the madness never stops.

I got $5 on this person being banned before nightfall.

MrDby · May 11th, 2008, 11:53 AM

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I got $5 on this person being banned before nightfall.

why would I get banned?

DBlack · May 11th, 2008, 02:23 PM

I don't know, I'm on the fence about this. I don't think there's a woman that didn't give the man they love some some as reward for something really nice he did.

Come on now, married men know there's a saying "If she's not happy, I'm not happy".

MadameX · May 12th, 2008, 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by DBlack

I don't know, I'm on the fence about this. I don't think there's a woman that didn't give the man they love some some as reward for something really nice he did.

Come on now, married men know there's a saying "If she's not happy, I'm not happy".

Exactly. Brotha D On the real tip, we all know that during the Honeymoon Years Of Marriage and beyond, sex isn't about being a gift. Hell, its par for the course and more like a perk considering that the frequency should be through the roof since both should be more than willing and able to satisfy and pleasure your spouse (taking in consideration that you've married the right mate and bonded and are in the first place hypothetically speaking).

Chinky · May 12th, 2008, 03:24 PM

I think ppl misinterpret why women "hold off" on giving their spouse or significant other "some". Some men think of it as a gift because they do not get it as much as they would like and think they must do "nice" things for their S/O in order to get it. It's not about being "nice", its about making the female feel respected and loved. Generally when we hold off its because we do not feel those things.

Terminal Server · May 12th, 2008, 09:42 PM

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Is giving someone sex as a gift meaningful? Is it appropriate?

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May 12th, 2008, 03:24 PM	#8 (permalink)
Chinky Afro Resident Occasional 2Cents Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Boston Gender: Posts: 98 Thanks: 49 Thanked 52 Times in 29 Posts Rep Power: 0 Credits: 905	I think ppl misinterpret why women "hold off" on giving their spouse or significant other "some". Some men think of it as a gift because they do not get it as much as they would like and think they must do "nice" things for their S/O in order to get it. It's not about being "nice", its about making the female feel respected and loved. Generally when we hold off its because we do not feel those things.