Had to let you go..

I just broke up with my girlfriend today, we had been dating for about a year and today was the last straw. We went out to eat last night and we were talking about how I was going through some rough financial times as we all do I am sure, I was telling her that I was going to work at this place I am at now for another year and if the work load doesnt increase I am going to bounce and probably do something that is along the lines of manual labor so I can get some more money and pay for my schooling. When I said that she rolls her eyes in her head. We had a discussion the other day about how she doesnt want to be working class, I dont really see anything wrong with that but she does, so at the the dinner table I said "I know it is working class with my fingers in the air making quotes but I have to pay for my schooling"

so anyway I get this email from her today and she does the same thing she always does, tells me I have no ambition and that I am poor and it is not her fault that I do not feel good about my station in life. I have never blamed by brokeness on her in fact I fully acknowledge that it is my fault which is why I am saving to pay for school.

Anyway I had to cut this #(&$ off cause I dont play this take a break (^&*# everytime someone hears something they dont like, if you cant have an argument and get over it or talk about it like an adult then I cant )(*# with you. So she says she wants to take a break and I says dont ever call me again with your retarded *##, I am sick of hearing you complain about how poor you are and how your parents are foul cause they wont buy you a house when they bought you a brand new jetta at 30k (oh yeah she is rich) and you are stressed cause you dont want to pay your own rent.

It has been a while since I had to rip into someone for being stupid but today was the day.

So that means the Man is back on the stroll, no ambition &(#%@ you must be sick.

Fellas dont ever let your woman try to tell you somethin about yourself if her own (*$ is eff'd up

[000HONEY]

First of all, if you're going to be with someone, it needs to be someone who will work WITH you & not AGAINST you
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Ambition- desire to achieve a particular end

*If you are looking in to schooling & employment, I don't see where YOU fit the definition
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She doesn't seem to be very mature, independant, or AMBITIOUS herself...
...since she wants things to be given to her & doesn't wish to work towards getting them herself.

Its Not Your Loss

That is what I am sayin, I am a mellow person but I have never in my life been called someone who has no ambition.

[Blak]

NO LOSS My brother!!!!

She was trying to push YOU to "make it" in life for HER. If she did not want to be "wroking class", then SHE needed to get herself a white collar job. Yall were not married so even if you are about to be "working class", that does not mean she is....and if you were CEO of a fortune 500 company....that would not mean she is "upper class"......it would mean YOU are.

You are in school ....or saving to be, and during that stage of life, you work what ever you have to to get the money if your parents cannot help and you dont want loans. I mean, if you could just be "upper class" right now based on your job....what would you need school for?? But she clearly cannot see this.

This was just another case of a woman who had no desire or forsight to build a life with a man....that means she did not give a damn about you in the first place. She was looking out for #1. :mad:

You are working.....and with that work you are aquiring money to go to school to improve your chances of getting the career you want.....that is the total opposite of shiftless and lazy. I bet you if you were from a rich family, had a crazy inherentence, but did not finish high school or ever work any job, she would never talk about your lack of ambition.....so long as you would be spending on her. :mad:

Anyways.....dont sweat it.....in ending this relationship and any chance of getting more serious, you dodged a very big, hollow point bullit.

Welcome to your new found freedom.

Blak :)

[000HONEY]

^ Blak,
You're right, She was all about herself.
She was the one lacking ambition

I am sick of hearing you complain about how poor you are and how your parents are foul cause they wont buy you a house when they bought you a brand new jetta at 30k (oh yeah she is rich) and you are stressed cause you dont want to pay your own rent.

Her parents may be rich, but I don't think she is...From what was stated above

[JamieC]

That's just down right selfesh on her part. She sounds to me like one of those sistahs that if you're trying to further your career/education, she doesn't want to be a part of it. But once you start making the BIG BUCKS she's all up in ya face.

Please tell me this woman is a Doctor!! because for her to belittle you that way wasn't right. That's like calling the kettle black and maybe she'll kick herself in the *** for saying what she said.

I guess that's what happends when people don't want to talk things out. Yeah, let her roll her eyes when you become Vice Prez or Owner of a company.

[Lonewolf]

Good for you for giving her the boot. I can't stand women like her. They make them all look bad.

[naskiecenye]

Glad you came to your senses she's no good for u. Never feel like you didnt do the right thing. Tell me this did the break up hurt u at all? u men seem to bounce back so quickly why is that

[Intelligent_One]

Yes good for you for leaving. For the fact that you want to work and go to school is respectable. "Lack of ambition"... LMAO on that one.

[elmb]

Keep your head up sweetie, it was her loss. This is so wild, I have girlfriends willing to pay to find a man like you and this woman is downing you for wanting to be an upstanding man. You are a diamond in the ruff. Your queen is coming when the time is right, God had to remove the mess so he can come in and bless.