Had to let you go..

[serenity]

So...um...you're free then, huh? Because, you know, what's up with them digits?

[elmb]

^^^You go serenity, get what you want.....lol

I will tell you what it all depends on who you are leavin, this time I didnt feel one ounce of pain, I have my limitations and they were reached this was not an isolated incident and I put a few warnings out there but this was the last straw, no pain.

All in all I am a man with a lot of patients(sp) I dont really trip about much I am not trying to handcuff my lady, I can be jealous but am not stopping her from doing what she wants to do. I used to live with this woman in NYC and she would come home from the bars at 4am with other cats givin her rides home and what not, but I never got the cheating feeling, nor did I worry about what she was doing, she was a young lady who am I to lock her up in the house at 23 because I got problems, she's coming home to me and what those cats at the bar dream about doing or what would happen if they got the chance I was actually experiencing as soon as they dropped her off.

My mantra on relationships

I am a free spirit type of person, honesty and trust breeds understanding, longevity and a whole lot of love.

[Samoon]

(I am sorry that your relationship did not work out for you)

Catch the clue? The sista had to tell you about your "short-comings" in an E-MAIL? To me, this illustrates that she is very immature. And the NUMBER ONE problem in many relationships is, "FAILURE TO COMMUNICATE!" I'm going to go with the fact that she knew where you were financially and that you have been working towards your goals? Yet with limited skills, she expects you to have a working salary of say 90 grand or above? Bottom line? It was all about self interest and her being selfish seeing only what she wanted. No more, no less. And I am going to be very honest here. Unfortunately there are some sistas out here that "equate a brother's man-hood with his wallet." She may be one of them. Just as you have that brother that is a "leech or moocher" if you will. And it is unfortunate for in both of these types, they lack inner drive to get up and "do it for self." They want YOU to work for THEM to increase the quality of their lives. But what is up on the RETURN?

Brother, remain FOCUSED and get that education out of the way. And the next time you "whiff" a sista like this? Steer CLEAR. You can do bad all by yourself.

[delia]

yeah you definitly did the right thing letting that girl go. she is not the type of person you need to be with,its a wonder how you stayed with her as long as you did,but any way its her loss. females like that, rich never had to do anything for themselves and allways had things given to them will never last in the real world. believe me she will need you before you will need her. stay strong and never settle for less than what you know you deserve. :angel1:

[Chelbe]

No offense, but she sounds like the stuck up, used to getting everything her way type of female. I hope this will be a reality check for her. It takes time and patience to obtain things and I feel a couple should work together to acquire those things. She is just straight up spoiled. When you come up, she will be checking for you.