Black Man Who Seeks a White Woman's Counsel Before Dating A Sistah

[The Dragon]

Originally Posted by Terminal Server

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Race has nothing to do with it. It's a woman giving her opinion about what he told her about you. She may or may not be correct. These things are highly subjective, emotional and can lead to a lot of meaningless hyperbole. Your belief that he is a "deeply conscious black man" has no meaning. It's what he feels about you that is important. Not his or her race.



Good. Move on......



Yes......

Coming from the resident apologist that believes that racism does not even exist today.

Ok, turn the situation around, what would another white person think if a white man asked a Black woman should he date this white woman hes feelin and is she mature??

They would be here saying the same things most of us are saying and even worse!! The white man would be ridiculed and become the scorn of his white collegues.

[Terminal Server]

Coming from the resident apologist.....

Oh really? I see.......Just whom or what am I supposed to make apologies for?

.....that believes that racism does not even exist today.

Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! That's funny. I'm sure you realize that comment is so silly and ridiculous that I'm not going to respond to it. Next.....

Ok, turn the situation around, what would another white person think if a white man asked a Black woman should he date this white woman hes feelin and is she mature??

Uhhhhh...not sure what you are tyring to say. I guess I need to brush up on my Ebonics. Sorry about that. Anyway, I'll try to respond to what I think you were attempting to say. First of all, it's hard to say. Depends on where you are at and who is involved. The response (that you believe) may be different in Seattle, Washington as compared to Ridgeland, Mississippi. I'm sure you could generalize, but that doesn't make it 100% correct. Case in point: "All black people would not respond as you do." What makes you think every single white person would respond the same? Got it....??!!

They would be here saying the same things most of us are saying and even worse!! The white man would be ridiculed and become the scorn of his white collegues.

Maybe. But you can't prove it. What proof or research can you produce to substantiate your claim that every white person would respond exactly the same? Uh huh.......I thought so.........

[The Dragon]

Everybody else understands what we are talking about is a paradigm that already exist between two different cultures; As a matter of fact, between all cultures. We know that every single white person would not respond the exact same way. We are talking about majority here. The majority of white folks would see this as strange and out of place.