Black Man Who Seeks a White Woman's Counsel Before Dating A Sistah

[Serenity4Ever]

Originally Posted by Samoon

Listen up. You know what, Becky? YOU cut the bullchit. Don't bring it to me. Basic, unevolved and unimportant people like you come a "dime a dozen." Don't bring any chit or your self-defeating and hating issues to me. Come BACK to the here and now.

Oh yes. That little "microcosm" or world that you proclaim that I live in? More brothas and sistas become enlightened when APOLOGISTS like YOU are exposed--and discarded. For YOU serve no fundamental purpose. You got that? I've long suspected that you were a TROLL, but I gave you enough rope to hang ya dam self.

And you came through today admirably.

WHO the hell is Becky to wield the baton on the sista's views, let alone her maturity, for the sista IS allowed that. Now what you anhd Becky "BOTH need to do is grow the hell up".

Speaking of the 'Panthers? I'd strongly suggest that you bone up and become enlightened about OUR BLACK HISTORY, then maybe you will understand the Panthers just a little bit BETTER.

(muttering to self) I have to meet 'n greet a dumb arse everyday....dam.

Thank you for your comments oh militant one. (sippin more coffee)

[mlc0908]

The BM that seeks advice from a WW about whether or not to be with a BW needs to turn around and keep it moving right back to that WW for he is not deserving of that BW. The BW should be his source for any and everything he needs to know about her. Never in a million years would I turn to a WM for advice in this situation. Honestly, I don't really believe in the 3rd party/2nd hand info anyway, but there's absolutely nothing that WP can tell me about BP PERIOD.

[mlc0908]

Well, now that it's quiet in here, I've had a chance to reflect on what I've said before and although my thoughts on that haven't changed... outside of the race factor, why would this man turn to a woman that he has already slept with for advice on another woman? Unless she's a saint, her opinion would be tainted because of their past and a biased opinion will hardly ever be a fair one. If I were the BW in this situation, I couldn't help but to think that the outcome would be the same for us as it is for the BM and WW, which would make me leery of him if not turned off all together. More than likely the latter- I don't really have the desire to follow up behind my co-workers and/or people I know, see or interact with on a regular basis. But, that's just me. There's just too many red flags here for me.

[Samoon]

"Thank you for your comments oh militant one. (sippin more coffee)."

(noted sarcasm) "Militants," as you term us, arise when a social order is NOT working. Look at past uprisings, not riots--for they tell the tale. A militant POSITION borders on PHYSICAL revolution. Epochs of history have taught BLACK people in this country that VIOLENCE will not produce economic empowerment or bring about CHANGE. Not with the "rearing up" of racism that is so omni-present.

Moving on, alas, a mistake of the 'panthers, but their dismantling did prove to be a very important and criticial learning curve for black people. For blacks DID observe and LEARN from that--that murder is the easiest form of genocide especially in Amerikka--a war-mongering country in and of itself. That biggest 'banger is sitting right up there in the "White" house...right along with his father.

Oh yes..You're welcome, Apologist. I can mud-sling too (and dam good at it), but you know what? No cause for that, for I know WHO I am...and the greatness that I come from.

How about you?

[mlc0908]

Originally Posted by Samoon

"Thank you for your comments oh militant one. (sippin more coffee)."

(noted sarcasm) "Militants," as you term us, arise when a social order is NOT working. Look at past uprisings, not riots--for they tell the tale. A militant POSITION borders on PHYSICAL revolution. Epochs of history have taught BLACK people in this country that VIOLENCE will not produce economic empowerment or bring about CHANGE. Not with the "rearing up" of racism that is so omni-present.

Moving on, alas, a mistake of the 'panthers, but their dismantling did prove to be a very important and criticial learning curve for black people. For blacks DID observe and LEARN from that--that murder is the easiest form of genocide especially in Amerikka--a war-mongering country in and of itself. That biggest 'banger is sitting right up there in the "White" house...right along with his father.

Oh yes..You're welcome, Apologist. I can mud-sling too (and dam good at it), but you know what? No cause for that, for I know WHO I am...and the greatness that I come from.

How about you?

Do you hear that sound? (Crickets chirping) Do you know why you hear that? Because at the moment there's nothing else that can be said to follow behind your words except for THANK YOU!

[RealTalk3000]

what are sistahs doing to brothas?

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by Samoon

Look at past uprisings, not riots--for they tell the tale. A militant POSITION borders on PHYSICAL revolution. Epochs of history have taught BLACK people in this country that VIOLENCE will not produce economic empowerment or bring about CHANGE. Not with the "rearing up" of racism that is so omni-present.

For blacks DID observe and LEARN from that--that murder is the easiest form of genocide especially in Amerikka--a war-mongering country in and of itself. That biggest 'banger is sitting right up there in the "White" house...right along with his father.

Interesting viewpoints along with historic breakdown my Sista. Sometime people won't to conveniently forget how our history , how it impacts us in terms of our survival in todays society.

[LadyBug]

I am not one really for message boards because most of the time I am too damn tired, but I can't sleep for once and this post caught my eye. Everyone is missing the obvious issue...any 40 year old man asking another woman's opinion on whether or not to date (I don't care what color she is) is not a REAL MAN. I real man does not need a another woman or man telling/advising, whatever the hell you want to call it, on who he should date or not.

Sistah gather up your self esteem, he is not even worth a second thought. Take my advise, if you do end up with him, next he will be letting his mother dictate what goes on in your relationship. You need a man that can think for himself and to hell with everyone's else opinion. What a punk...and a few other choice names that I am sure violate the rules here!!!!!

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by Samoon

Listen up. You know what, Becky? YOU cut the bullchit. Don't bring it to me. Basic, unevolved and unimportant people like you come a "dime a dozen." Don't bring any chit or your self-defeating and hating issues to me. Come BACK to the here and now.

WHO the hell is Becky to wield the baton on the sista's views, let alone her maturity, for the sista IS allowed that. Now what you anhd Becky "BOTH need to do is grow the hell up".

Speak on it Sista. And for the pesky Becky, I have the pefect remedy to address their nonesense:

[DBlack]

LadyBug's got a point!