All Of A Sudden

[Mr Gumbo]

Originally Posted by afrocentric

lol...... oh, now you wanna complain? after seeing your pic, what did you expect? you are nice looking and you can't help that. loozanna and other southern women will flock to chocolate men such as yourself. i know i would.

Aw shucks, LOL. Oh I'm not complaining at all, it sure does wonders for my ego but dayum where was all this attention when I was single for a few years.

[Mr Gumbo]

Originally Posted by SistahSpeak

I think it's multi-layered.

My grandmother taught my mother, who in turn told me, that most homewrecka's don't want your man, they just don't want you to have them.

- Married vibe? Well, I'm sure if you married the woman, she's taking care of you. you're eating well so your skin is clear, she's scheduled your appointment to the dentist, your clothes are ironed, your socks match, you're smilin' cause you're gettin' good lovin on a regular without the gamble or game. shoot! You're attractive because you're energy is on point!

- And of course what the others said before me is true too. Some of these "women" are probably doing this and calling it a challenge. In my opinion, they don't love themselves enough and have been hurt so much that they in turn, probably subconsciously, desire to deliver such pain to someone else.

- There's the element of competition. "Oh, she thinks she's all that!" If she can get you to turn your head, or get your attention, she get's some twisted satisfaction that she's the "baddest B". sick but true.

With all of these variations stated, the author of all of this is the adversary, the anti-God Spirit that wants to destroy what the Creator calls good. By marrying that woman you have become a god to her and those children. They have a leader, a protector, a guide. We're fighting a Spiritual War out here... we mustn't forget this. The war is not with those women, but with the adversary attempting to destroy what you and your family is building.

Press on... continue to think with your Spiritual Intellect rather than your carnal mind.

Keep On!

Yeah I'm sure I'm giving off some strong energy right now because I'm as happy as a punk in prison right now. She done cleaned me up and filled my belly fa sho!!!

[Mr Gumbo]

Originally Posted by ardamus

in order to step my game up, i should get married? hmmm, that sounds backwards.....

Yeah brah, you get married and your game automatically receives 1000 points.

[SistahSpeak]

Originally Posted by Mr Gumbo

Yeah I'm sure I'm giving off some strong energy right now because I'm as happy as a punk in prison right now. She done cleaned me up and filled my belly fa sho!!!

LOL! That's what I'm talkin' bout!! *smile*

Keep On! I wish you and your family the best!

[Mr Gumbo]

Originally Posted by SistahSpeak

LOL! That's what I'm talkin' bout!! *smile*

Keep On! I wish you and your family the best!

Thank you. I used to think I'd be a playa for life until she came along and being with her is far better than being a medium playa, LOL. It's amazing what I good woman can do for a brotha.

[SistahSpeak]

Originally Posted by Mr Gumbo

It's amazing what I good woman can do for a brotha.

Wow. Words that warm my heart! It's sad, but you really dont hear brothers, or sisters for that matter, speaking that way. We're so disjointed. Hey, we brangin' it back, ya'll! lol

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by Mattylock

I'll have a total dry spell until I start seeing someone

da Freudian slip.....

[UglymanCometh]

Case in point... after doing the show earlier, I counted the highest number of black women (cute ones too!) checking me out like I was the finest male on campus.

Either Hell hath officially frozen over (it IS -2 C in Detroit today), or the game is twisted severly.

. o O ( I got money on both )

[SistahSpeak]

Originally Posted by UglymanCometh

Case in point... after doing the show earlier, I counted the highest number of black women (cute ones too!) checking me ...

Stop braggin'!


lol, j/k

[UglymanCometh]

Originally Posted by SistahSpeak

Stop braggin'!


lol, j/k

Whatever! I told you that I'm bringin ugly back.

We back in style!