Women having kids by married men

[LdyJ]

Why do some women pay men to be with them knowing he have a woman at home?Several situations are going on like this at my job and the gossip is flying all around about these women,These women should really feel bad.

[Terminal Server]

Why do some women pay men to be with them knowing he have a woman at home?

Two answers: 1.) Stupid, 2.) Desperate. End of subject.........

[mlc0908]

Originally Posted by RealTalk3000

Why do some women get knocked up by married men who they know are attached,and knowing dang well he's not going to leave his wife for her? my cousin has a friend, who is preggo by a married man, and she's about 22 with 3 kids, now it's baby number 4 by the married, dude. are some women just homewreckers?

Just because a woman gets pregnant by a married man doesn't necessarily mean she's trying to wreck that man's marriage/family. I'm positive in some cases it's a matter of deception...who knows what that man has told her about his home life or if he's even told her he was married at all. On the other hand, some women just don't care if that man is married and/or will settle for being the other woman or the 2nd family (if she'll even be that). This is the woman who needs to do a little soul searching and discover the many things there are about her to love and to be loved. At the same time she needs a reality check and a lesson on self respect and respect for others. I can't fathom knowingly becoming involved with a married man let alone getting pregnant by one...That's all the way around the board a no-fly for me.

Just to put the possibility out there, I had a full time, serious, out in the open relationship with a man for an entire year before all of the pieces finally fit together in the puzzle that was his marriage. Luckily we practiced safe sex and made no babies but still, it can happen that way......I knew he was too good to be true ya'll.

[Mr Gumbo]

I'm sorry but it's all on the man. He is the 1 that said the vows, and let's be real here alot of times the women don't find out until they done threw their heart into the guy. Now the women that know and still don't care are stupid, homewreckers, whores and any other word out there but he is the 1 that has to uphold his vows to his wife not her. Now if you know he's married and you still have a baby for him you need to be slapped.

[The Dragon]

I agree with Gumbo that it is the man who made the vows to his wife and the one who should be upholding them, not the women in the streets.

Hes the one married.

[JamieC]

Originally Posted by mlc0908

Just because a woman gets pregnant by a married man doesn't necessarily mean she's trying to wreck that man's marriage/family. I'm positive in some cases it's a matter of deception...who knows what that man has told her about his home life or if he's even told her he was married at all. On the other hand, some women just don't care if that man is married and/or will settle for being the other woman or the 2nd family (if she'll even be that). This is the woman who needs to do a little soul searching and discover the many things there are about her to love and to be loved. At the same time she needs a reality check and a lesson on self respect and respect for others. I can't fathom knowingly becoming involved with a married man let alone getting pregnant by one...That's all the way around the board a no-fly for me.

Just to put the possibility out there, I had a full time, serious, out in the open relationship with a man for an entire year before all of the pieces finally fit together in the puzzle that was his marriage. Luckily we practiced safe sex and made no babies but still, it can happen that way......I knew he was too good to be true ya'll.

From the quote of the SPINNERS "Love Don't Love Nobody" I wouldn't care if the man told me he'd love me for a lifetime, I don't work well with sloppy seconds. If a man is a married man, he's going to handle his business then walk away with a coke and a smile on his face, go home to his wife, and tell her Today Was A Good Day.

So nah. Ya don't mess around in that ballpark because in the long run it's not worth it.

JMO now. Let's not get upset and you know who you are. Click click: Smile for the camera.