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Old February 10th, 2008, 01:52 PM   #11 (permalink)
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are some women just homewreckers?
I'M SO TIRED OF YOU IN UR POSTS RANTING AND RAGING ON WOMEN.
WHY IS IT THAT THE WOMEN ALONE ARE HOMEWRECKERS? ISN'T THE MAN INVOLVED A HOMEWRECKER AS WELL? HE IS PUTTING HIS HOMELIFE IN JEOPARDY BY HAVING AN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR. IT TAKES TWO.
GET SERIOUS MAN!!!!!!!!!
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Old February 11th, 2008, 06:41 PM   #12 (permalink)
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It is a shame that today marriage don't mean ish. Many married persons want to live like singles. I guess they want the stability of a marriage but the ability to hit something different too. That is sad! Black folks have really gone down in the morals dept. That so many men would be cheating on their wives and so many hoes out there don't give a ish if a man is married. And what's worse will have a baby by the brotha. Why in this day and age would a woman in her early 20s want 5 or 6 kids anyway? What is happening to our people?
 
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Old February 11th, 2008, 07:08 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I'M SO TIRED OF YOU IN UR POSTS RANTING AND RAGING ON WOMEN.
WHY IS IT THAT THE WOMEN ALONE ARE HOMEWRECKERS? ISN'T THE MAN INVOLVED A HOMEWRECKER AS WELL? HE IS PUTTING HIS HOMELIFE IN JEOPARDY BY HAVING AN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR. IT TAKES TWO.
GET SERIOUS MAN!!!!!!!!!
Exactly. Yes, there are a lot of dubious women out here... but it takes two to tango. Men are to blame for 49% of the problems in dating/relationships.

...of course, men account for 49% of the population.
 
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Old February 11th, 2008, 10:20 PM   #14 (permalink)
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I just went back and looked at the ten most recent threads RealTalk3000 has started. Man, some woman clearly did a number on you. Seriously, this one sided hatred against our sistahs needs to stop. This ain't no black female bashing site....

Now in regards to the subject of the thread...

The man is more at fault than she is. He's the one married and chose to get down repeatedly. Moreover, he knew this woman had three kids and he continued to act recklessly. I hope one day you will learn to stop blaming the woman for everything that two consenting adults are responsible for.

Perhaps they deserve each other...
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Old February 11th, 2008, 11:48 PM   #15 (permalink)
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I just went back and looked at the ten most recent threads RealTalk3000 has started. Man, some woman clearly did a number on you. Seriously, this one sided hatred against our sistahs needs to stop. This ain't no black female bashing site....

Now in regards to the subject of the thread...

The man is more at fault than she is. He's the one married and chose to get down repeatedly. Moreover, he knew this woman had three kids and he continued to act recklessly. I hope one day you will learn to stop blaming the woman for everything that two consenting adults are responsible for.

Perhaps they deserve each other...
Thank you for expressing exactly what I was thinking. Not to justify either party, but isn't the married man the one who made the vow to his wife before God and everybody?
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Old February 12th, 2008, 01:36 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I just went back and looked at the ten most recent threads RealTalk3000 has started. Man, some woman clearly did a number on you. Seriously, this one sided hatred against our sistahs needs to stop. This ain't no black female bashing site....
Yea, hang in there brotha'. You attract what you are. And if you are constant in distrust of sisters, you'll never attract a sister you can trust.

It is the adversary's job to keep the Afrikan man and woman divided. And so far he's doing a great job.

Don't give him the power fam.
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Old February 15th, 2008, 07:39 AM   #17 (permalink)
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i feel ya it go both ways when it comes to home wrecking. I got a homeboy who having sex with his bestfriend girl, and he doesnt know it, but I do. I dont like to get into other people business. i dont want to be the reason for their breakup so i keep my trap closed
 
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Old February 15th, 2008, 12:01 PM   #18 (permalink)
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i feel ya it go both ways when it comes to home wrecking. I got a homeboy who having sex with his bestfriend girl, and he doesnt know it, but I do. I dont like to get into other people business. i dont want to be the reason for their breakup so i keep my trap closed
You need a new group of friends...

of course, just my humble observation.
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Old February 19th, 2008, 10:04 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Now thats one place I draw the line. Married men or men in an existing relationship is a big no-no
 
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Old February 21st, 2008, 01:19 PM   #20 (permalink)
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As a woman i do not want to sound condescending, however I totally blame the sister.
When a woman is aware that a man is 'married' she should not get involved FULLSTOP!
Sisters RESPECT yourselves.
There is an old saying that you would not buy the cow when you could get the milk for free.
Too many of our women think they can be better wives than the wives (how sad) and they end up being used and abused, whose fault is it. If you drink poison, honestly believing that it is juice, you will still die.
Just my 2 cents
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