Woman Are Yall Concious Of....

[robbboy2003]

Chuckling,,, i was taught to look up,when i met my wife. Her bosom area was very distracting,and still is actually.

[Its Ok 2 B Quiet]

Originally Posted by StJohn1726

Complimenting a woman while trying to "push up on her" always comes across as game, and I loathe the idea of "playing myself" so obviously.

I agree with you on this one.

[thicksista]

i hated it when white men stare at my breast...my insurance man did that before...i asked him....what you don't see my face...he was so embarrassed his face turned red!...as for my brothas...it doesn't bother me,unless i'm trying to have an conversation with him!

[Samoon]

"Complimenting a woman while trying to "push up on her" always comes across as game, and I loathe the idea of "playing myself" so obviously."

I am very discerning, but what you've stated above is the truth. This is almost the same as greeting a brother WITH a SMILE (I'm one of the sistas that actually does this) and the next thing you know? You want to continue your DAY and he will not get OUT of your line of vision. This DOES actually make my skin crawl and t's me off. I am very direct, I get right to the point and make that person aware that I am not interested.

[s8loud]

Originally Posted by Samoon

"Complimenting a woman while trying to "push up on her" always comes across as game, and I loathe the idea of "playing myself" so obviously."

I am very discerning, but what you've stated above is the truth. This is almost the same as greeting a brother WITH a SMILE (I'm one of the sistas that actually does this) and the next thing you know? You want to continue your DAY and he will not get OUT of your line of vision. This DOES actually make my skin crawl and t's me off. I am very direct, I get right to the point and make that person aware that I am not interested.

that's the way to be. who has time for games these days?

[emileeNM]

I feel like if men didnt look at my chest and butt
that there is something wrong with me.like I am not
good looking enough.

[Serenity4Ever]

It has never bothered me because If I'm wearing something tight or form fitting, that means I WANT THE BROTHAS TO TAKE NOTE. LOL Even if I'm dressed casually (like I usually am) in Jeans and a Tee-Shirt, my butt is not that big but I have a set of 48 DD's sitting on my chest.... you'd have to be blind not to notice.

I'm cool with it but I do wanna mention that when having conversations with men, I do get irritated if their eyes start to Roam. Walking by a brotha is one thing, but actually trying to have a discussion is different. It would make me feel like what I have to say isn't important enough to hold his interest.

[Samoon]

Originally Posted by emileeNM

I feel like if men didnt look at my chest and butt
that there is something wrong with me.like I am not
good looking enough.

Interesting thought that you have about yourself.

"I feel like there is something wrong with me."

Curious and question? Do you "affirm" yourself based on your chest and butt? And alllow males to validate you in this manner as well?

[UglymanCometh]

Originally Posted by emileeNM

I feel like if men didnt look at my chest and butt
that there is something wrong with me.like I am not
good looking enough.

So I guess that I would make you downright suicidal? Cause I don't ogle women like that... especially sistas. Yall got overblown egos already...

[Mattylock]

Yep. We notice. I don't mind as long as looking is not accompanied by rude comments and/or unauthorized touching. Oh, and I prefer it not to occur when I'm trying to talk to you.