Woman Are Yall Concious Of....

[Its Ok 2 B Quiet]

Sometimes you guys do it on the DL and then there are the one's who want you to know they're looking at you.


Mr. Gumbo that's a nice family picture.

[Mr Gumbo]

Originally Posted by Its Ok 2 B Quiet

Sometimes you guys do it on the DL and then there are the one's who want you to know they're looking at you.


Mr. Gumbo that's a nice family picture.

Thank you.

[s8loud]

Originally Posted by afrocentric

of course, we wouldn't be switchin and bouncing for nothing. we knows you looking.

I knew it!!! lol

[Sumyr]

Originally Posted by afrocentric

of course, we wouldn't be switchin and bouncing for nothing. we knows you looking.

- you so crazy!

[StJohn1726]

Originally Posted by UglymanCometh

Brothas... seriously. We gotta stop doing that. No matter how fine the sista is.

My policy: the finer she is, the less attention she gets. I'm not gonna be the one gassing heads up. They're already egotistical and arrogant enough as it is. Let's not make it worse.

Yes sir! That's always been my stance. If she carries herself like her ish don't stink, pride won't let my eyes follow her. The ability of a man to control his gaze is almost as powerful a tool as the ability to turn down sex. It may not shift the balance of power, but it can d@mn sure make the playing field more level.

[moneymayweather87]

I see no problem with staring when she isn't looking, but just to stare at a woman's bobbies while she's looking you right in your face is idiotic to me.

And very disrespectful,but some women obviously like to be stared at and will walk around half naked in 20 degrees weather just to get a little attention.

[The Dragon]

It's natural because men are extremely visual creatures anyway. As long as prolonged staring and comments don't ensue I'm ok wiith it.

[Its Ok 2 B Quiet]

Originally Posted by StJohn1726

Yes sir! That's always been my stance. If she carries herself like her ish don't stink, pride won't let my eyes follow her. The ability of a man to control his gaze is almost as powerful a tool as the ability to turn down sex. It may not shift the balance of power, but it can d@mn sure make the playing field more level.

Ok what if she doesn't strut around like her ish don't stink? Do you still have issues following her? I understand where your coming from because I feel the same way when it comes to a man. There's no greater turn off than someone strutting around like a peacock thinking their all that.

But you know in reading the responses here (and another thread), it is helping me put something in perspective that's been going on with a member of the opposite sex.

[StJohn1726]

Originally Posted by Its Ok 2 B Quiet

Ok what if she doesn't strut around like her ish don't stink? Do you still have issues following her?

It depends. For instance, if her apparel suggests she's seeking attention, I'll usually ignore her. I've always been attracted to stylish yet modest fashion on a woman. When the latter example is the case, I've found it's just as easy to compliment her respectfully then walk away, as it is to stare. Besides, I've gotten points for compliments given that way; there's not much gained from just looking. Complimenting a woman while trying to "push up on her" always comes across as game, and I loathe the idea of "playing myself" so obviously.

[UglymanCometh]

Originally Posted by moneymayweather87

some women obviously like to be stared at and will walk around half naked in 20 degrees weather just to get a little attention.

exactly.

Let's stop the madness and iron out this playing field.