Great person/Bad in the sack

[Queen Aminah]

never mind

[Mr Gumbo]

Teach and keep. If that's the only thing wrong with her why would I dump her. Especially with all these crazy asz women walking around we gone go to class.

[Lediamand]

Originally Posted by Queen Aminah

Due to being out of work this week because I hurt my back, I am entertaining myself

soooo dump them or teach them? Its tough to teach chemistry and technique. Takes a lot of time, effort, and patience that I probably am not going to have at my age. But if the person is perfect for you in every way except for the sack, do you keep them hoping they will catch on? Do you go your own way and continue the search for someone who can match you sexually, knowing you may have to compromise on other aspects you consider important in a relationship?

Sex is a practical thing the more you do it the better you get at it. Also the mechanism of sex varies with different partners, so there is learning curve to fully satisfy each woman. To dump someone because of bad initial sex sound wrong to me. Communication is a relationship best friend try that first. I to like teach my women things I like and I am always open to hear their suggestions as well.

[BabyBoy]

This is news to me. I didn't know sex was important to women. It seems women will deal with almost anything as long as the guy is wining and dining her. But I see no reason to stay in a relationship if you are unfulfilled. I suggest you keep it real with him and cut him loose.

[Lady_Dread]

I'd leave him if he can't please me in bed,but thankfully..i don't have that problem.

[Mr Gumbo]

Originally Posted by BabyBoy

This is news to me. I didn't know sex was important to women. It seems women will deal with almost anything as long as the guy is wining and dining her. But I see no reason to stay in a relationship if you are unfulfilled. I suggest you keep it real with him and cut him loose.

Brah sex is more important to women than it is to us. They got is way worse than us but they just have more control over theirs.

[Sumyr]

Sorry to hear that you hurt your back - an around the holidays as well (I'm assuming here - that you celebrate that is - if not, no harm meant.)

Chile at my age (33) I don't have time to teach. You either come to class already familar with the "lesson plan" or I'm going to have to fail you (leave you behind).

[Sumyr]

This is news to me. I didn't know sex was important to women. It seems women will deal with almost anything as long as the guy is wining and dining her. But I see no reason to stay in a relationship if you are unfulfilled. I suggest you keep it real with him and cut him loose.

Baby Boy, It (sex) wasn't important to me in my twenties - so I thought. That was until I went 13 years without "good sex" and it eventually played a HUGE role in the demise of my first marriage. It wasn't the only reason, but I'd be lying if I said it wasn't in the top 3 reasons. Now, "I KNOW" better and can't go without something so important - especially when this is the person, the only person who you will be with from now until eternity. But I'm a sexual person, so it will weigh heavily on my decision "right now" in my life. Twenty years from now, and I may answer differently. Just being real.

[Lediamand]

Originally Posted by Sumyr

Sorry to hear that you hurt your back - an around the holidays as well (I'm assuming here - that you celebrate that is - if not, no harm meant.)

Chile at my age (33) I don't have time to teach. You either come to class already familar with the "lesson plan" or I'm going to have to fail you (leave you behind).

Its like that

[Queen Aminah]

never mind