When does intimacy turn into intrusion - AfroChat - African American

Queen Aminah · November 17th, 2007, 06:40 PM

never mind

afrocentric · November 17th, 2007, 09:00 PM

i walk in on my man while he's using the bathroom all the time. he sho be cutting up!!!! but i love him anyway. we don't share toothbrushes but we share bath water...if you know what i mean. now the scratching part...we needs to get that checked. i don't go for the nosepicking. that's straight out nasty.

ardamus · November 17th, 2007, 09:39 PM

Don't use my toothbursh of my face cloth. I don't mind if she's butt-naked and flauting my face. I'm cool with that. But just because we had sex does not mean we have to be non-hygenic. I'm not anal but seriously.....thats not a good look.

DBlack · November 17th, 2007, 10:20 PM

OK, I can share anything but the toothbrush. That's over the top nasty. Of course, I'm sure my wife's tolerance level is much lower than mine.

Like AfroCentric said, somethings are straight out nasty.

The Dragon · November 17th, 2007, 11:52 PM

No sharing tooth brushes; I don't like to smell my own mess, let alone someone else's so you have total privacy while eliminating and I expect the same. Go blow your dorn nose!! No picking and flicking boogers! I don't take baths (showers only) so that would not be an issue, unless we are bath bathing at the same time

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If my baby needs something to help him with his nut-scratching issue I would gladly get that ointment for him, other wise I don't believe I would make a big deal out of it...maybe just laugh!!

matrixone05 · November 18th, 2007, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by afrocentric

i walk in on my man while he's using the bathroom all the time. he sho be cutting up!!!! but i love him anyway. we don't share toothbrushes but we share bath water...if you know what i mean. now the scratching part...we needs to get that checked. i don't go for the nosepicking. that's straight out nasty.

ROFLMAO

Do Not Touch My Toothbrush!!! or squeeze my paste in the middle. I don't have an issue with the bathroom thing either. I grew up in a house where there was only one and if someone needed something out of it, well they were going to come and get it or send someone else to. It's part of the package. Now the nose picking....Ugh, get a tissue. I'm not in love with the fart thing, but if you are around someone long enough, nature tends to take its course when it chooses sometimes.

The rest of it sometimes comes with the territory.

The Dragon · November 18th, 2007, 12:20 AM

Oh yea, I forgot; The farting...well I do it ALL the time by myself so....

Nyela · November 18th, 2007, 01:56 AM

Don't use any product of mine in the bathroom...
Washcloth, towel, soap, deodorant, razor, shaving cream, toothbrush, tweezers, mask, moisturizer...nothing...and I do mean nothing. I'm anal about my products. Once I find something I like, then I stick with it. So it's off limits.
Otherwise, I'm ok with most other things. Haven't really had to deal with the body elimination issue. He stays out. I stay out. I don't pick my nose. He doesn't pick his nose.

Chelbe · November 18th, 2007, 05:34 AM

Wash cloth, bath water, tooth brush, while I'm using the bathroom.. nope, nada, no way. And don't drink out of my glass either. Why I must lose all privacy due to love.. I understand it with some things and I can most definately compromise, but some things are too extreme for me.

Its Ok 2 B Quiet · November 19th, 2007, 12:19 AM

Don't use my washcloth, tooth brush, and any of my personal effects (hair, deodorant, lotion, brush, comb, nothing!). I am funny about those things because growing up, my sister use to take my things.