Women killed dating??

[Samoon]

Originally Posted by MadameX

It is the weak Sistas without any strong home rearing/ guidance, and lost inner spirits that haven't realized this fact. As I've always stated to some of my sistas here at the board, what you project into the universe eventually is what you get back.

MadameX, you are on point. And the "beauty" of sista-hood is that for sistas that have not actualized their power? It is incompent on the sistas that ARE aware to, "help a sista out." The operative word here being "spirit." If one can influence their spirit, then limitless opportunities wait and will abound for them. Sistas do not have to carry ugly dispositions, nay, say I. Change is a good thing, when being nutured, taught and led by insightful minds and hands.

Thank you for your beautiful insight, MadameX.

[jimihaze]

I don't think that dating is dead. Like Samoon said earlier women just to activate there power and stick to there standards.

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by Samoon

MadameX, you are on point. And the "beauty" of sista-hood is that for sistas that have not actualized their power? It is incompent on the sistas that ARE aware to, "help a sista out." The operative word here being "spirit." If one can influence their spirit, then limitless opportunities wait and will abound for them. Sistas do not have to carry ugly dispositions, nay, say I. Change is a good thing, when being nutured, taught and led by insightful minds and hands.

Thank you for your beautiful insight, MadameX.

Your Welcome Sista Samoon!

[ardamus]

I think the more the genders complain, the more that they will not find who they are looking for. The stereotypes of black men and women are bad enough as it is that people are coming out asking where are all the good black men/women. They need to look around and expand from what they see if they have to constantly question things like this. And women didn't kill dating. I feel that certain ones have but not just women in general. Men have done some things to make other men look bad when approaching a female. So therefore, its really all on our actions and comminucations with one another.

[DBlack]

Originally Posted by UglymanCometh

There are sistas that don't want thugs and ruffnecks... they're just so rare, it takes time to find one. Be patient. It took me 25 years....

You should get out more....better yet, come to Atlanta.

[DBlack]

If I hurt someone's feelings, please forgive me...but I get sick to my stomach hearing grown *** men crying and whining because women pick a thug instead of them.

When it comes to relationships, you, nor I are entitled to anyone, even if we are good for them. Why are you so caught up into women that don't want you anyway? We all make or have made bad relationship choices. Guess what? That's part of the process. You can't know what is good until you've had what's bad.

Most black women can sense weakness, timidness and insecurity in a man. Do some real soul searchin, and you may not like what you find out.

[poeticasylum1]

Originally Posted by DBlack

If I hurt someone's feelings, please forgive me...but I get sick to my stomach hearing grown *** men crying and whining because women pick a thug instead of them.

When it comes to relationships, you, nor I are entitled to anyone, even if we are good for them. Why are you so caught up into women that don't want you anyway? We all make or have made bad relationship choices. Guess what? That's part of the process. You can't know what is good until you've had what's bad.

Most black women can sense weakness, timidness and insecurity in a man. Do some real soul searchin, and you may not like what you find out.

D...
Why do I sense brother that you are like one of those big brothers tormenting pledges on line with a six foot paddle. lol
You cold man, but you're real. Its good to have a brother call it like they see it.

[Great Ursus]

I've taught my sons as my dad told me; That nobody is owned to you, so to take up an undue amount of time trying to be "loved" just isn't called for.
Pop always said walk in confidence, and that means if you want her go after her, but if she prefers another, leave her to her preference and see what happens. Wit this in mind I've lost and gained. Had many honeys try and get back into "Ursusland", but access was denied. Many women who thought the thugs answered her questions, only to find more questions, and though they chose others, I still tried to be what I thought I'd want in the same situation; A friend.
However for the most part being an upstanding honest and chivalrous individual has afforded me more than my share of women's company.
And with a clear conscience too.

[Chinky]

Originally Posted by ardamus

I think the more the genders complain, the more that they will not find who they are looking for. The stereotypes of black men and women are bad enough as it is that people are coming out asking where are all the good black men/women. They need to look around and expand from what they see if they have to constantly question things like this. And women didn't kill dating. I feel that certain ones have but not just women in general. Men have done some things to make other men look bad when approaching a female. So therefore, its really all on our actions and comminucations with one another.

My point exactly.

[UglymanCometh]

Originally Posted by DBlack

When it comes to relationships, you, nor I are entitled to anyone, even if we are good for them. Why are you so caught up into women that don't want you anyway? We all make or have made bad relationship choices. Guess what? That's part of the process. You can't know what is good until you've had what's bad.

Most black women can sense weakness, timidness and insecurity in a man. Do some real soul searchin, and you may not like what you find out.

That's why I stick to what I KNOW works for me.

"The more attractive the woman's physical features, the less attractive are your chances of interacting with that woman." - Sebastian A. McCallister