Old July 16th, 2007, 05:14 PM   #11 (permalink)
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I wonder does shows like this, especially sit-coms and "soap operas" influence many of us in our actions and searches for a worthy mate? And does it influence our own opinions about our selves? If not, explain. If so how and in what areas?

In case anyone's wondering about me; I don't watch'em, except for a few minutes b4 get'n pissed for giving my time and energy to a screen.
Good for you Brother! We should love and live for each other in the real world and not from somebodies else idea on a dimwitted show.

"And of course Most white peoples idea of what's love or romantic,well it don't fit me cuze i'm a Black Man with a Black Sista,and we do thangs in our own spirit and way! Hate to vent,but to me there always has been and will ever be a different way I relate to my Black Queen from white women.

Peace! P.S. I don't freaking care how little white Lilly and Tom are living. My eyes are on my prize and taking care of my Blackness and all it entails!
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Old July 16th, 2007, 08:27 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I wonder does shows like this, especially sit-coms and "soap operas" influence many of us in our actions and searches for a worthy mate? And does it influence our own opinions about our selves? If not, explain. If so how and in what areas?

In case anyone's wondering about me; I don't watch'em, except for a few minutes b4 get'n pissed for giving my time and energy to a screen.
Now Baba-sensei, these are some heavily loaded questions! Lol!

You know they do! As I see it, television has become a medium of value for our society. When people see something on television, those behaviors are automatically relegated to the realm of "things that are okay", simply because its being done on t.v. It's primarily a medium of cultural acceptance.

Thus, when people see these men and women acting the friggin fool on television, and they internalize how others respond to it. Usually responses to these shows range from humorously negative to positive by the majority of television watchers today. (I don't think the people on Afrochat.net who are critically critiquing these shows are in the majority unfortunately.) Thus, others get the justification that if they emulate what they see on t.v., at worst people might humorously admonish them for their ways, while in many cases, others will encourage such behavior because what they are doing is familiar...because everybody has seen similar mess on t.v.

Just one big ole cycle of stupid, if ya ask me. However, t.v. isn't the primary problem. I think a lack of critical thinking skills is the main issue, because the stupidity on t.v. can just as easily be found in book form as well and on the internet too. Any medium for the masses holds the potential for spreading ignorance. However, we need to teach people to think for themselves more, lest they fall prey to the bandwagon mentality which goes along with mindlessly reading or watching all types of information...without questioning it at all.


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Old July 16th, 2007, 09:29 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I've watched the show and really felt bad for the bride who was left at the altar. She stayed at the reception and made it through. Then the groom calls after all that tension and wants to go to Vegas for the wedding and she goes.

My real question is how does the wedding planner get paid. I don't remember hearing that discussed at all.

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Old July 17th, 2007, 01:19 AM   #14 (permalink)
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We need to stop this kind of behavior.
Precisely. It's a shame how some Black Folks continue to make fools a mockery out of our race and themselves for profit.
 
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Old July 17th, 2007, 01:21 AM   #15 (permalink)
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. My eyes are on my prize and taking care of my Blackness and all it entails!
Agreed. My sentiments exactly Brotha Rob.
 
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