What to do with Auntie?

[DymondGurl]

Originally Posted by Muze

uck. i'm with Dblack....maybe you're the one who likes her. you can acknowledge someone is pretty....but to find her attractive, as in being attracted to her, is kinda disgusting. i think my brother is a very handsome young man...but i could never be attracted to him. wow. maybe you should talk to her about her supposed flirtation and tell her that it makes you uncomfortable.....if it does. lol.

Exactly he should not even be looking at his aunt in that way. Cap you are just as bad as her. I dont care how young she is this is your Aunt. Have the aunt and nephew relationship your suppose to have and leave the rest of that blasphemus(is this even a word) stuff alone.

[DBlack]

As my grandma would say "....mm...mm..mm"

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by DBlack

As my grandma would say "....mm...mm..mm"

I heard that Brotha D.

[Corals]

Originally Posted by DBlack

As my grandma would say "....mm...mm..mm"

Maybe there is something big about her that he likes. LOL I'm only playing Captain Birdseye.

[matrixone05]

There is something out of order about this attraction between the two of you and it is evident that it's a two way thing. There are plenty of people in my family that I think are attractive, but I am not attracted to them. You two are bordering on committing incest. STOP!!!! I thought this type of thing was common in the mountain folk.

She may not have kids now, but watch out. Interbreeding does tend to produce children with developmental issues.

[Capn Birdseye]

I've not said anything to my mum about all this. My aunt asked me today if I was coming round on Saturday, I told her I would but I'm not going to do anything with her.

[moments2rememba]

I Believe If You Felt Uncomfortable You Should Say Somethng To Her....

I Mean I Have A Lot Of Aunts That Are The Same Age Or Around The Same Age As Myself And Some Of My Cousins

[DBlack]

You're an adult. Why would you need advice on such a thing? The longer you wait on not telling other family members, the worse it will get in the long run.

Oh, and....feel free to talk about other things other than big breasteses and incest....

[Capn Birdseye]

My aunt is so much younger than my mum that I don't even think of them as being sisters, and they're so different in every way. My mum is strict and is concerned about what people think whereas my aunt is out to enjoy herself and so she should because she's young and good looking.
I'm going round to see her tomorrow.

[SchoolofSoul]

If she's lonely like you say, then her acting flirtatiously with you is probably a desperate attempt at some kind of attention and affection. Nothing wrong with that by itself, and as family there's nothing wrong with you being loving toward her, but it can't be sexual. You have to be honest with her, and with yourself, and let her know that you two can be close, loving, etc., but there must be boundaries which neither of you can cross, because you're relatives. Show both her and yourself respect by not succumbing to your natural human lust, and by not allowing her to misconstrue familial love for sexual interest. Women often act sexual in order to get a man's interest, and it's likely that what she really wants from you is just some attention, someone to talk to and feel protected by. There's nothing wrong with wanting that, nor with you providing that for her - but because you're blood relatives, there must be limits.

Seriously, don't do the wrong thing. This whole situation could blow up in both your faces and cause a lot of people in your family a LOT of heartache and pain. Avoid that like the plague, but don't drive her away or make her think you don't care about her. Just help her put it in the proper perspective.