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Women are in control
We as women has the control..if we take the time to really get to know that man before we established a relationship with them, so much could be avoided down the road..less baby momma drama, decrease in divorces...Take the time to see where that man is from, his goals, his background..if you meet a man and he is at home with his momma, no job, no goals and you decide that you want to sleep with him, as a result you have a baby thinking that would change him..Thats stupdidty on your part..We have to make better decsions in who we give our bodies too..no matter how fine he is.. A good man is hard to find, but they are out there..
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April 30th, 2007, 01:29 AM
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Same thing can be said about men. Women only have 50% of the control in a relationship.
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April 30th, 2007, 01:33 AM
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Same thing can be said about men. Women only have 50% of the control in a relationship.
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April 30th, 2007, 03:16 AM
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D, Madame X I swear that's all I be sayin...
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April 30th, 2007, 07:52 PM
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The best thing for anyone to do is to take the time and evaluate the lifestyle, morals and beliefs of a potential partner. That is necessary for both individuals. Yes there are really good men and women out there.
And sometimes, no matter how well you think you've found all that you are looking for, it can be an illusion.
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No matter how much you think you know a person you never truly know everything about them. Things change and people change. Women dont control anything. A relationship is suppose to be a partnership not a dictatorship. Have you ever heard the saying you learn something new about people everyday. Well I believe in that alot. So no matter how much you think you know someone you can never fully know them. Good people are hard to find.
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We as women has the control..if we take the time to really get to know that man before we established a relationship with them, so much could be avoided down the road..less baby momma drama, decrease in divorces...Take the time to see where that man is from, his goals, his background..if you meet a man and he is at home with his momma, no job, no goals and you decide that you want to sleep with him, as a result you have a baby thinking that would change him..Thats stupdidty on your part..We have to make better decsions in who we give our bodies too..no matter how fine he is.. A good man is hard to find, but they are out there..
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can you give my King my phone number please!!!! A good man is hard to find especially those who want to get to know who you are and not get in your pants. Know me as a person, then you will know how to love me. I long for a man to get to know me- are you out there? where?
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We as women has the control..if we take the time to really get to know that man before we established a relationship with them, so much could be avoided down the road..less baby momma drama, decrease in divorces...Take the time to see where that man is from, his goals, his background..if you meet a man and he is at home with his momma, no job, no goals and you decide that you want to sleep with him, as a result you have a baby thinking that would change him..Thats stupdidty on your part..We have to make better decsions in who we give our bodies too..no matter how fine he is.. A good man is hard to find, but they are out there..
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You are so right my sister
I hear you loud and clear and understand the point you are making.
No job having, baby mama drama giving, blunt smoking with no future men should be avoided at all cost. It is all about SELF-esteem when it comes to giving of our bodies. Our body is the ULTIMATE giving of SELF.
We are devalued when we give of our most intimate SELF to men who squander our emotions, but we have nobody to blame but SELF.
We as "individual" women have control over who we decide to let into our lives. Sisters need to take control over their personal choices in relationships and spend sometime checking the brother out.
My granny used to say...men do the picking but women do the choosing.
I make the choice to keep my legs closed.
I control who gets to dine at ladydivine's.....ya know.
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