Seeking Wisdom from Those Successful in Love - AfroChat - African American

Mattylock · April 14th, 2007, 10:09 PM

If you meet a man that you know is a good man, should you get involved with him even if there's no chemistry?

poeticasylum1 · April 15th, 2007, 01:36 AM

hmmm...
define successful in love.
I do know this..
you will force yourself and you will come to disliking it simply because naturally in your thoughts it does not feel right.
however if you are patient and are willing to see a season of development unfold, then its possible to grow into love.
Sometimes God gives us what we need as opposed to what we want.

robbboy2003 · April 15th, 2007, 02:17 AM

It's up to you as the make or break of a attribute lacking or not that important as to a long time love.

You say. "He's a good man." Well, personally to me that's a very good start to the things that i hope my woman would say about me.

There are some similarities to great loving people,but there's some things unique to them also. It is like the saying some like it cool and others like it hot.

I wish you a chance at it however way is your way.

Peace and harmony!

MadameX · April 15th, 2007, 05:45 AM

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Originally Posted by robbboy2003

There are some similarities to great loving people,but there's some things unique to them also.

So True. They're various reasons people unite/have a meeting of minds. Indeed, its depts to level of attraction which bring people together in a relationship. Sometimes love has no rhyme or reason.

Samoon · April 15th, 2007, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Mattylock

If you meet a man that you know is a good man, should you get involved with him even if there's no chemistry?

Women AND men have been doing this practice since time immortal. It's called a relationship/marriage "of convenience." For some, forget the word love. It's all about the paper.

MadameX · April 15th, 2007, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Samoon

Women AND men have been doing this practice since time immortal. It's called a relationship/marriage "of convenience." For some, forget the word love. It's all about the paper.

Agreed. This is pretty much the case with Superficial Gold digging Materialistic Groupie like women. Unlike those misguided sistas, Real Sistas like ourselves, purely get involved in relationship based on what we have in have in common with that man mentally, physically, spiritually, and sexually.