Single and over 40

[sistahcutie]

I am interested in meeting a BM over 40 but I prefer to do so offline. I attended a singles' event last weekend and I enjoyed myself but I met more BW than BM, there were 35 BW and 8 BM. How does a BW over 40 like myself meet single BM over 40?

[Babydoll]

church

jazz shows

golf courses

[JamieC]

When the time is right. You'll find him. Usually happends when you're not looking.

[sistahcutie]

church

jazz shows

golf courses

That is true Baby Doll. The singles' event that I went to was a church related event that lasted from Friday to Sunday so the BM are there but I wish they would come out in more numbers. When I go to jazz shows, I usually go with a date so I wonder if alot of BM would go alone. And as for golf courses, I haven't tried that one. Hopefully alot of BM are at the golf courses that are near me.

[sistahcutie]

Originally Posted by JamieC

When the time is right. You'll find him. Usually happends when you're not looking.

I hope so JamieC, I don't want to sit back and wait for him to appear though so I do go out with other BW friends and I try to do things by myself as well. I find that BM are out and about but it is hard to find a good BM who is single and availiable, most of the good looking BM are married and I definitely want my own BM not someone else's.

[hoopskidoodle]

Originally Posted by Babydoll

church

jazz shows

golf courses

I would add the gym (especially a YMCA) and sporting events to this list. In my area, the YMCA is lousy with 40ish men--between the hours of 06:00 am and 08:30am--who like to work out before work.