The Rise of Players and the Decline of Providers

[MzPhynixRyzn]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

naw, it's that powder that i slipped into your drink.
it makes you agree with anything i say. anything at all.

<---my Ninja gear ***sneakin around JFP tryin to find his powder stash. Can't have that stuff gettin out causin an epidemic...***

[Celeste]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

naw, it's that powder that i slipped into your drink.
it makes you agree with anything i say. anything at all.

Another reason why I never leave my drink unattended .

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by black_NOSSA_rep

Science is self-evident, it needs no one to defend it as it can be seen it action everyday of the year. I do not support the site, for science needs no support, but I will not deny that the content of that site is sobering-ly true. A man once said that the Earth was round, he was laughed at, scoffed, and had his life threated. I believe by the end of this century, and I said it first, many of the facts on that site will be accepted and appear in textbooks if not bio-history books (some already have now, good for them). My point, should he have beaten us dead with the issue, not if we already knew it to be true. But from what I have seen, most of you are in utter denial. But, just like we know from statistics about workplace discrimination against minorities and women, AIDS, tall males and females that are tall and slim earning more than the rest of us, and other things, the (sigh) issues he has pointed out in these forum as it relates to "heightism" are back by statistics also. Let us be (I sound like Shawn Hannity now) CONSISTENT ACROSS THE BOARD, EOT!

last time i looked there were a bunch of small women running around.

[jamesfrmphilly]

i can understand the pain of not being able to find a suitable woman. i have been there.
it is a true test of your spirit.

blaming all the women will not help you. you still have to go out there and find the one that is waiting for you.
you got to drop the negative and focus on the positive.

if the only person you have control over is yourself, then you are the one who has to change to insure your success.

[ardamus]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

i can understand the pain of not being able to find a suitable woman. i have been there.
it is a true test of your spirit.

blaming all the women will not help you. you still have to go out there and find the one that is waiting for you.
you got to drop the negative and focus on the positive.

if the only person you have control over is yourself, then you are the one who has to change to insure your success.

Thats one thing I've been trying to do. I've been in situations where the woman claims she wants a decent and nice guy (which I am) but yet turns around and simply thinks I'm push over. When I respond to that, all of a sudden, I'm the bad guy and its my fault. So, I've been trying to change my ways about looking at the negatives. Be a bit more positive and re-focus my direction.

[DBlack]

Originally Posted by black_NOSSA_rep

Science is self-evident, it needs no one to defend it as it can be seen it action everyday of the year. I do not support the site, for science needs no support, but I will not deny that the content of that site is sobering-ly true. A man once said that the Earth was round, he was laughed at, scoffed, and had his life threated. I believe by the end of this century, and I said it first, many of the facts on that site will be accepted and appear in textbooks if not bio-history books (some already have now, good for them). My point, should he have beaten us dead with the issue, not if we already knew it to be true. But from what I have seen, most of you are in utter denial. But, just like we know from statistics about workplace discrimination against minorities and women, AIDS, tall males and females that are tall and slim earning more than the rest of us, and other things, the (sigh) issues he has pointed out in these forum as it relates to "heightism" are back by statistics also. Let us be (I sound like Shawn Hannity now) CONSISTENT ACROSS THE BOARD, EOT!

If you consider a bunch of agenda-driven narrow minded content FACT, then that's your choice. Personally, the site and it's content is not even worth my time to even critique any further.

Your friend was banned because he continues to Copy and Paste content from this website and this website only. In repeated violation of the rules, he would spam the board and offer none of his own commentary. We don't condone post-spamming of anykind. If it's not worthy of your own opinion, it shouldn't be worthy of anyone elses. And after ignoring my repeated pleas to him publically and privately, he continued. So, now he's gone.

Now, I am willing to bet that 95% of women on this board value a man's confidence and self-esteem. Black women are not attracted to men that blame others because of their own social inadequacies. If I'm wrong, ladies, please step in and correct me.

Men make bad dating decisions just like women do. It's very much like how we make bad buying decisions whether its a car, washing machine, or computer.

There's no rise of the players and decline of providers. That's just a bunch of garbage to make some insecure man feel better about himself.

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by ardamus

Thats one thing I've been trying to do. I've been in situations where the woman claims she wants a decent and nice guy (which I am) but yet turns around and simply thinks I'm push over. When I respond to that, all of a sudden, I'm the bad guy and its my fault. So, I've been trying to change my ways about looking at the negatives. Be a bit more positive and re-focus my direction.

women do have problems with good men. as a good man and a very nice man, myself, i know the phenomena well.
sisters have some serious problems. you must not let their problems become your problems. you have to keep on steppen. you cannot control them but you can control you.

as a brother you cannot let the negativity of the females turn you negative. it is the role of the man to show leadership. you got to be positive. do not cry about what females do. get out there and do you.

[DBlack]

And us Men have serious problems as well. With all our problems, that still doesn't stop most black women from loving and seeking black men, and most black men from loving and seeking black women.

But most of us find it hard to love those that don't love themselves.

That IS the beautiful truth in it all.

[ardamus]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

women do have problems with good men. as a good man and a very nice man, myself, i know the phenomena well.
sisters have some serious problems. you must not let their problems become your problems. you have to keep on steppen. you cannot control them but you can control you.

as a brother you cannot let the negativity of the females turn you negative. it is the role of the man to show leadership. you got to be positive. do not cry about what females do. get out there and do you.

no doubt, man. i've already got myself on that path right now. it took a minute but eventually i realized how blessed i was in the outcome of it. thigns like that not working out happens for a reason.