Black Women are Least Likely to be Married

[poeticasylum1]

Well. Obviously our sisters are hurt on a number of fronts. They have so much power and yet many times they fall for the most stupid cats around. Many of them have been burned and naturally they are more guarded. I dont believe black women are not married because they desire to be. This is a foreign concept our community has taken on. Then again a lot of brothers are not serious. So many of sisters have just given up that desire. Now whats crazy to me is that many of the serious brothers cant connect with a sister because many of them have shun commitment. I know a few brothers who struggle to understand this. Honestly I dont either. However, I realize that this is the nature of the beast. Like I stated earlier, our community have taken on another foreign concept. Yet, in the face of this whats a brother or in this case a sister to do?

[jimihaze]

Well I just hope that this can be solved in some way. because I am starting to see more and more black women starting go outside the race to marry.

Commentary Interjected

Originally Posted by poeticasylum1

Well. Obviously our sisters are hurt on a number of fronts. I am hurt too. A lot of black males under 5'4" are hurt, by our sisters. What are they suppose do when many sisters will not even be friends with them.
They have so much power and yet many times they fall for the most stupid cats around.They consciencely choose these men.
Many of them have been burned and naturally they are more guarded. I dont believe black women are not married because they desire to be. This is a foreign concept our community has taken on. Then again a lot of brothers are not serious. So many of sisters have just given up that desire. Now whats crazy to me is that many of the serious brothers cant connect with a sister because many of them have shun commitment. Many sisters will not try and connect with me because I am shorter than most of them (5'1").
I know a few brothers who struggle to understand this. I am one of those brothers struggle to understand it. I also however struggle to understand why even after being burned by those stupid brothers, why good guys like me who are not necessarily tall cannot have a chance.
Honestly I dont either. However, I realize that this is the nature of the beast. Like I stated earlier, our community have taken on another foreign concept. Yet, in the face of this whats a brother or in this case a sister to do? What is a brother like me to do?

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[Sumyr]

Many sisters will not try and connect with me because I am shorter than most of them (5'1").

Seminole, I didn't quote your entire post, but height has nothing to do with getting a woman. If it did, Gary Coleman, Mini Me, Bow Wow, Katt Williams, etc. wouldn't have a chance with a woman.

Originally Posted by Sumyr

Seminole, I didn't quote your entire post, but height has nothing to do with getting a woman. If it did, Gary Coleman, Mini Me, Bow Wow, Katt Williams, etc. wouldn't have a chance with a woman.

They are famous, and more than likely, their women probably weighted the money more heavily than other assets/areas. But, in normal everyday life, my statements hold true and you know they do. The fact the you immediately cited famous short, rather than addressing the point as it pertains to everyday, regular short guys like me who walk the college campuses, corporate offices, and other arenas only show that you in denial, or you are indirectly trying to promote the status quo. :withstupi Do this Sumyr: Go to google, click the Advanced Search link on the Home page. Next, in the exact phrase box type "short men are"(without the quotes!), and either hit enter or click search. See what you get.

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[jacqui]

Someone said earlier the fact that you may not have a woman has nothing to do with your height. Let's see my friend Ken, Robby, Emmanuel, Gerald, Timothy are all guys who are not rich and would be considered short but they have no problems at all with women. In fact they have problems with too many of them, especially playa playa Emmanuel. These guys have personality, are not rich but they are confident and know how to handle their business.

It would make sense for her to name famous men as you would not know the ones she may know personally. Ok so you are short, so what are you going to do about it other then wallowing in self pity about it. It is something you can't do anything about so why not accept it and move on with your life instead of clicking this website or that website that are demeaning to you. Geez man come on

Originally Posted by jacqui

Someone said earlier the fact that you may not have a woman has nothing to do with your height. Let's see my friend Ken, Robby, Emmanuel, Gerald, Timothy are all guys who are not rich and would be considered short but they have no problems at all with women. In fact they have problems with too many of them, especially playa playa Emmanuel. These guys have personality, are not rich but they are confident and know how to handle their business.

It would make sense for her to name famous men as you would not know the ones she may know personally. Ok so you are short, so what are you going to do about it other then wallowing in self pity about it. It is something you can't do anything about so why not accept it and move on with your life instead of clicking this website or that website that are demeaning to you. Geez man come on

how tall are they?

under 5'4"?

[Corals]

We are not back onto this short men thing again are we? Heels man, get some heels if its a problem. LOL

[jacqui]

LOLOLOL@ Corals

But not the heels with the fish swimming in them.

[jamesfrmphilly]

ok, who is willing to contribute some money so he can buy himself some?