Relationships hurt men too!

[Proudbrothaman]

Interesting… I have to say I found a lot of this article to be thought provoking. I don’t really agree with the ways to get over relationships, I think everyone heals in their own way. The first part of this article really caught my attention. I’ve only had one girlfriend in my 32 years, no high school sweetheart, no special lady waiting on me to come home from the Army. That’s the way I wanted it no commitments. So reading the first part of that article made me realize just how painful a relationship can be.

http://www.mybrotha.com/relationships.asp

[LadyDivine]

Originally Posted by Proudbrothaman

Interesting… I have to say I found a lot of this article to be thought provoking. I don’t really agree with the ways to get over relationships, I think everyone heals in their own way. The first part of this article really caught my attention. I’ve only had one girlfriend in my 32 years, no high school sweetheart, no special lady waiting on me to come home from the Army. That’s the way I wanted it no commitments. So reading the first part of that article made me realize just how painful a relationship can be.

http://www.mybrotha.com/relationships.asp

Great article....I am in the process of a break-up and this gives me perspective on what he is going through. Thank you very much.

[kimonajaye]

that's true I know a lot of men that are affected by relationships the thing is that men react differently to things than women. I believe they have the same feelings they're just taught to express them differently. For example instead of crying over a man with friends they're likely to punch a wall. What do you think?

Originally Posted by Proudbrothaman

Interesting… I have to say I found a lot of this article to be thought provoking. I don’t really agree with the ways to get over relationships, I think everyone heals in their own way.[/url]

[RaInEdomThoughtz]

Originally Posted by kimonajaye

that's true I know a lot of men that are affected by relationships the thing is that men react differently to things than women. I believe they have the same feelings they're just taught to express them differently. For example instead of crying over a man with friends they're likely to punch a wall. What do you think?

Why would a man cry over another man? With his friends? Is that what you're saying??

[poeticasylum1]

well...
Wobeit me to understand relationships.
I am currently mulling over the thought of seeing a therapist. Hey, maybe its the Tony Soprano in me.
I dunno. What I do know is that every relationship if its gone bad, has it own funky arse bitter taste to it. I am in the middle of getting a divorce. I don't feel good about it. The weird thing is we get along fine. Every now and then she will throw a shot at me for the way things are. Some of its deserving, but not all of it. My wife thinks I left her (which I did) for another women (which I didn't). I believe she can handle it better thinking that way because she cant discern that she ultimately ran me off.
I love women, but I am not trying to snuggle up to anybody right now.
If a get desparate I can make a booty call to her (ex-wife). (shaddup, dont talk unless ya been there).
I do know I have to do some soul searching because I dont want to wake up years in a relationship only to find out I am still pissed off, aggravated all because I did not deal with those issues.
**truth is thats why we are getting a divorce, she didnt deal with those issues from the past**
You cant expect your significant other to play doctor at every whim. That ish looks romantic on television but yall know hard that crap is to deal with. Why would I put someone else through that and make them feel the way I feel. Marriage is great, dont get it twisted, but its the (individuals that screw it up)
Healing is waaaaayyyyyyyy underestimated
I Know. Real talk.