Black Men and Brazilian Women

[debzmarie]

I haven't read the article, but Essence featured a story about Black men that vacation in Brazil to take advantage of the easy sex that's rampantly available.

A girlfriend of mine went to Brazil just before the article was released and she attested to the truth of the story. She met two men that actually moved to Brazil solely for the women. They both told her that Black American women could not give them what they needed. And she heard stories of men having orgies with women on a regular basis. She also found out that a lot of these men set up bogus travel agent businesses in order to traffic other Brothers in the States with Brazilian women.

Has anyone else heard about this?
I want to explore this more for my website.

Debbie
www.umojamix-blackpeoplemeet.com

[DBlack]

It's not just black men, but I know of brothers myself and many stories as well about the social scene in Brazil. Brazil is a very poor country with a seemingly infinite supply of beautiful brown skinned women that love black men.

Brazilian women are also very submissive to men they are interested in. Because of their dire poverty, they are very appreciative of even the smallest gifts. Not knocking my sistahs, but these women, with ease, will basically do all of the things that many black women simpy won't do.

It's cheap to vacation there as well, so when you think about it, there's no real obstacle in preventing black men from traveling over there and having extended getaways. If I wasn't married, I'd probably be over there myself....

[jcsump]

This is nothing new. I've been overseas in the AirForce and it's the same story about women being so submissive until they are married and back in the states.So,to the brothers that are down with that,more power to you and knock yourself out. Just don't be upset if you catch something big with a little name because of irresponsibility.

[Sumyr]

Seems like a lot of trouble to travel so far just for a wh0re or a piece of @ss. Of course its nothing new. Dogs have been getting killed for years trying to cross the street to "get a little bit", never mind that he sees another dog splattered all over the street with his gutts hanging out.

A simple summation of this is they want it fast and easy, something us quote "Black American Women" are not willing to do. Nothing wrong with that if you are not expecting anything in return because it will be over just as fast and just as easy.

Just one question though - why when we "Black American Women" act in such a manner we are wh0res and bytches, but black men will travel the seas to Brazil to be with a female that does the same thing and make them your wives? All I'm saying if it's a wh0re you want support your local wh0res in the states - why travel abroad for the same sorry piece of @ss?!?!?!

[Tsweetone]

Originally Posted by Sumyr

Seems like a lot of trouble to travel so far just for a wh0re or a piece of @ss. Of course its nothing new. Dogs have been getting killed for years trying to cross the street to "get a little bit", never mind that he sees another dog splattered all over the street with his gutts hanging out.

A simple summation of this is they want it fast and easy, something us quote "Black American Women" are not willing to do. Nothing wrong with that if you are not expecting anything in return because it will be over just as fast and just as easy.

Just one question though - why when we "Black American Women" act in such a manner we are wh0res and bytches, but black men will travel the seas to Brazil to be with a female that does the same thing and make them your wives? All I'm saying if it's a wh0re you want support your local wh0res in the states - why travel abroad for the same sorry piece of @ss?!?!?!

I feel you on this one Sumyr!! :)

[DBlack]

Originally Posted by Sumyr

Seems like a lot of trouble to travel so far just for a wh0re or a piece of @ss. Of course its nothing new. Dogs have been getting killed for years trying to cross the street to "get a little bit", never mind that he sees another dog splattered all over the street with his gutts hanging out.

A simple summation of this is they want it fast and easy, something us quote "Black American Women" are not willing to do. Nothing wrong with that if you are not expecting anything in return because it will be over just as fast and just as easy.

Just one question though - why when we "Black American Women" act in such a manner we are wh0res and bytches, but black men will travel the seas to Brazil to be with a female that does the same thing and make them your wives? All I'm saying if it's a wh0re you want support your local wh0res in the states - why travel abroad for the same sorry piece of @ss?!?!?!

What gives you the right to assert that they are whores? I think your comments are disrespectful to a culture of people that love and respect black people. It's not like the brothers are selling out to white women, so I don't understand your hostility.

I can be honest with reality, but it's clear that you cannot be. Why is it a bad thing if you won't do certain things? That's who you are and you deserve a mate that shares the same values as yourself. If a black man wants a more submissive brazillian women and that woman wants a black man, what's the problem? Personally, I'm married and happy, so I don't see the temptation that others do. But to be frank, I can't see any problem with a brother going overseas for another brown honey if he can't find one here. Many women overseas actually LOVE the more submissive roles. Calling them whores is ridiculous. There are sistahs right here in the U.S. that are so independent, you can't even hold a conversation with them. And they hit the clubs weekly and have multiple un-commited relationships. They could be characterized as whores too. Let's be fair about it...

From a purely masculine perspective; there's no doubt that brazillian women are some of the most beautiful on the planet. So are black women. The way I see it, healthy competition is good. If you have 'higher' standards than another women, so be it. But at the same time, don't hate on a women that embraces a different relationship philosophy that may make her more attractive to the very men that you seek as well. Men should expect the same thing from women. Calling the entire race of Brazillian women whore's is over the top and ridiculous.

[The Dragon]

Personally I'm am tired of hearing the same sorry a** excuses Black American men give for abandoning and forsaking Black American women.

Ladies I think it is time to look within and find what it is that we really need and want in a mate and look else where just like a good deal of the brothas are beggining to do. African men are a good source. They are family oriented and tend to have a general respect for women. Just be mindfull of the particular cultures and religious beliefs. They are also very hard workers and tend to have high aspirations. I have never met an African man who was a sorry bomb, but we have plenty of this kind among our own men here in America.

Also, children are valued and protected in African societies. An African father being a "deadbeat dad" is surreal to the average African. The African men I have met cannot even conceive of abandoning their offspring and just don't understand the American culture where this is common in our communities among our own men.

So let the Brothas who desire, look to Brazil, India, the North Pole and caves to find the woman of their dreams. We should be looking towards Africa and many of the Islands they also frequent for love.

[Sumyr]

What gives you the right to assert that they are whores? I think your comments are disrespectful to a culture of people that love and respect black people. It's not like the brothers are selling out to white women, so I don't understand your hostility.

I can be honest with reality, but it's clear that you cannot be. Why is it a bad thing if you won't do certain things? That's who you are and you deserve a mate that shares the same values as yourself. If a black man wants a more submissive brazillian women and that woman wants a black man, what's the problem? Personally, I'm married and happy, so I don't see the temptation that others do. But to be frank, I can't see any problem with a brother going overseas for another brown honey if he can't find one here. Many women overseas actually LOVE the more submissive roles. Calling them whores is ridiculous. There are sistahs right here in the U.S. that are so independent, you can't even hold a conversation with them. And they hit the clubs weekly and have multiple un-commited relationships. They could be characterized as whores too. Let's be fair about it...

From a purely masculine perspective; there's no doubt that brazillian women are some of the most beautiful on the planet. So are black women. The way I see it, healthy competition is good. If you have 'higher' standards than another women, so be it. But at the same time, don't hate on a women that embraces a different relationship philosophy that may make her more attractive to the very men that you seek as well. Men should expect the same thing from women. Calling the entire race of Brazillian women whore's is over the top and ridiculous.

DBlack - The poster said: Black men that vacation in Brazil to take advantage of the easy sex that's rampantly available. Also that: heard stories of men having orgies with women on a regular basis.

I at no time referred to the entire race of women in Brazil as wh0res. What I read was they were traveling abroad for "SEX", not that because these women had better values, morals, religious values - sex - nothing more, nothing less. And that these women were more submissive - translation - would put up with their shyt. So in essence what you are saying is that there aren't any wh0res, oops my bad, women in the entire USA that fit those same "qualities" as the Brazilian women?

What I see and feel is they travel to Brazil because (A) No one knows them there and (B) They won't have to be accountable for their actions. Remember I did say if this is what they want then expect the same thing in return "Fast & Easy".

I call it like I see it. If it walks like duck, then don't get mad at me because it quacks. I respect your opinion. :)

[robbboy2003]

Sumry, You are as right on as can be. Getting abroad coochie is the inthing for brotha's with no game,or can't hang with a real woman. You see it in close quarters in big business,and the military,law enforcement,and you see in professions such as law an medicine.

It is what it is time and opportunity! I've seen long married,and supposely cleric men; act a monkey fool out in about in these third world countries.

Make no mistake. Greed makes fools of us all. One should be single,before they go to Brazil, however! :) Again, if you are not firmly in a real deal life partnership with someone,and have no self control do not go there alone,but you can say that right here in good old U S A. Virginia Beach or Norfolk has some of the most beautiful black women alive,and there are several other places here at home, that have them. It is where a person is at in their commitment that tells the tale.

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by Sumyr

Seems like a lot of trouble to travel so far just for a wh0re or a piece of @ss. Of course its nothing new. Dogs have been getting killed for years trying to cross the street to "get a little bit", never mind that he sees another dog splattered all over the street with his gutts hanging out.

A simple summation of this is they want it fast and easy, something us quote "Black American Women" are not willing to do. Nothing wrong with that if you are not expecting anything in return because it will be over just as fast and just as easy.

Just one question though - why when we "Black American Women" act in such a manner we are wh0res and bytches, but black men will travel the seas to Brazil to be with a female that does the same thing and make them your wives? All I'm saying if it's a wh0re you want support your local wh0res in the states - why travel abroad for the same sorry piece of @ss?!?!?!

me oooooooow!

Originally Posted by The Dragon

Personally I'm am tired of hearing the same sorry a** excuses Black American men give for abandoning and forsaking Black American women.

Ladies I think it is time to look within and find what it is that we really need and want in a mate and look else where just like a good deal of the brothas are beggining to do. African men are a good source. They are family oriented and tend to have a general respect for women. Just be mindfull of the particular cultures and religious beliefs. They are also very hard workers and tend to have high aspirations. I have never met an African man who was a sorry bomb, but we have plenty of this kind among our own men here in America.

Also, children are valued and protected in African societies. An African father being a "deadbeat dad" is surreal to the average African. The African men I have met cannot even conceive of abandoning their offspring and just don't understand the American culture where this is common in our communities among our own men.

So let the Brothas who desire, look to Brazil, India, the North Pole and caves to find the woman of their dreams. We should be looking towards Africa and many of the Islands they also frequent for love.

same olde black self hate