One Night Stands

One night stands suck. Seriously. I've been there before and felt like a real whore the next morning. (I felt like a whore but without the luxury of getting paid.) The sex was great but the afterglow was none existent. There's just something about being sexually involved with someone I don't know or know very little about. I don't claim to be the most sexually responsible person all the time, but there's just something about being intimate with someone on a one night tip that doesn't get me excited.

[RaInEdomThoughtz]

Originally Posted by RanRan

I felt like a whore but without the luxury of getting paid

OMG, you are so wrong for that, Im going to pray for you.

[jamesfrmphilly]

i have a problem with folks doing a one night stand and then crying about it afterwards. if it's all that negative then why did you do it? why do something that you have to cry after?
i don't have any beef about what i did because if i wasn't down with it, i didn't do it.

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

i have a problem with folks doing a one night stand and then crying about it afterwards. if it's all that negative then why did you do it? why do something that you have to cry after?

It's called a mistake. Ever made one of those before?:wink: I did something that at the time seemed like an okay thing to do and when it was over I regretted it. Plain and simple. It was an experience- like watching "Monster's Ball"- that I decided I'd NEVER do again. I think.:)

Originally Posted by RaInEdomThoughtz

OMG, you are so wrong for that, Im going to pray for you.

It's the truth. I did NOT get paid. I mean after that experience money would have made me feel a little better. Just a little.:wink:

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by RanRan

It's called a mistake. Ever made one of those before?:wink:

i have made many mistakes but never with my genitals. i know, up front, what i will do and what i will not do.
i have never screwed anyone by accident. that can get you killed.

[The Dragon]

It's cool to make a mistake, just as long as you don't make the same damned mistake over and over again. I've never had a one stand and know they are deffinitely not for me. This is one area I don't plan on making any "mistakes" in.

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

i have made many mistakes but never with my genitals. i know, up front, what i will do and what i will not do.
i have never screwed anyone by accident. that can get you killed.

I got caught in my zipper once, so I know ALL about mistakes of the genitals. Painful mistakes.:i need a

[goodcookinmama]

Originally Posted by DBlack

Help you do what?!!! And what are you sprung over? I'm gonna tell you as if you were my sister; Expect more out of yourself and those you lay down with, and you won't be in need of 'help'.

Don't even expect a man to respect you if you don't respect yourself. When dealing with adults, actions always speak louder than words.

Sounds like you are asking for help because you realize your error in judgement.



Given the circumstances, your statement here seems unfair. I think both share in the blame, if there is any to go around. Bottom line, they BOTH consented to a sexual episode based on absolutely nothing to glue them together. How can anyone mature expect something meaningful to come out of that?

what i said was in responce to her saying that when she did hear from him he wanted money and in that case he is an *** he chould have just left it the way it was but no he had to go for the pockets he turned what chould have been a good memory in to a bad one and on that note peace my brother