One Night Stands

[The Dragon]

Originally Posted by Sumyr

Yes, Millitant, they are. As of the past 10 years it has become more bla-zay than you could have imagined.

To answer Ladyny - yes it was a one night stand. In your situation, I would wait for him to call. If he doesn't though, don't hold it against him. Take it for what it was and don't beat yourself up over it. But do try to use better judgement in the future and not expect anything to blossom from something where so little time and effort was exercised.

Roses don't grow overnight and neither will a long, meaningful relationship. :)

Co-Sign. Anything is possible but never expect anything more than what a one night stand represents, "This is for one night."

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

you sound totally weak and immature to me. this is how females get such a bad reputation.
you was bold enough to spend the night but now you too timid to call? jeez!
pm the number to me. i'll call the MF myself..........

LMBAO!!!!!

Originally Posted by robbboy2003

Sista, he got what he wanted. I'm sorry,but there has been cases of mysterious disappearances from guys,who have gotten the goods to soon.

Come,correct the next time,and know the guy a little please! Your thang should be a reward not free to any ole body!

Tru-Dat. But we all make mistakes. She may make another one and regret it too. Just don't make this a habit, learn and move on.

Originally Posted by Ladyny

thanks u guys. he did call but it got worse. dude had the nerve to ASK FOR MONEY. he gave me this ellaborate story about his wallet being lost and hes unable to access his account. I was disapointed.

what a waste.

I would have made him believe I was going to actually send him some money. I would have suggested he give me his address or any address so I could mail him a money order, all the while talking about how terrible I feel about his situation. When he finally opened up the damned mail some monopoly money would have fallen out.

He's a jerk. Make him a notch under your belt and be glad it was just a one night stand.

[Corals]

You can't always blame the guy. Afterall, she stated that she reunited with him, but all throughout high school, they never talked to each other. Some reunion!!

[Serenity4Ever]

If he ain't called you or emailed you or tried to have some sort of contact with you, then I'm gone really need for you to get "un-sprung".... cause babygirl, that goes in the playa handbook under "One Night Stand".

[LadyNoir]

Unfortunately, it was a one night stand, but for him to ask you for money after all that, has added insult to injury.

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by LadyNoir

for him to ask you for money after

maybe he was all that and a bag of chips........

[Baba Ahmed]

Originally Posted by MilitantWombMan

People are still having one night stands? damn where have i been

Yeah sis, such old fashioned terms as fornication and adultery are updated in newspeak. Understandably; for this is a European culture, mainly. And since morality is basically a matter of what's right and what's wrong it changes with the times. Especially for those who have no alternative culture of their own making.

So to respond to your question: yes, folk still do and talk about it.

Its renamed (& thought to bring less "shame") and diggit: to say my "something or special other" looks and sounds much more sophisticated than my fornicating partner or the wife or husband of someone else. Doesn't it? And in today's fast lane Euro culture, the same person may be fornicating with an opposite gender for one night; the next night? Same gender.

[Serenity4Ever]

Originally Posted by LadyNoir

Unfortunately, it was a one night stand, but for him to ask you for money after all that, has added insult to injury.

Well I'm glad you've regognized this and you seem to be in the process of moving on. It seems to me that he's still in high school. He probably thought you would be boo-boo da fool and give him the money..... I'm so glad your smarter than that. You go girl!

[stingerD37]

It's a game this type plays. H#$&, they're not even worth a penny a dozen.

[Sumyr]

I would have made him believe I was going to actually send him some money. I would have suggested he give me his address or any address so I could mail him a money order, all the while talking about how terrible I feel about his situation. When he finally opened up the damned mail some monopoly money would have fallen out.

Dragon, That is too funny. If this ever happens to me (and with my luck it will) I'm going to do this.

[urfan2c]

Uhm you already gave it up, so the old fashioned who should call first went out the window.
I just read responses. you guys are a trip