One Night Stands

[Chelbe]

Whats done is done. If you think there was a connection or something more could build from this, confront him about it and see what happens. Thats the only way you will find out.

Originally Posted by Ladyny

I reunited with this guy from highschool. we didnt talk at all thru the years we went to school with each other. we kinda have a family connection so we were both at a family gathering. attraction hit, words were past, so we hung out later that night. We really connected interllectually and PHYSICALLY. He lives in NC, i live in NY. I can only think it was a ONE NIGHT STAND, but I'M SPRUNG already. HELP ME PEOPLE!!!!!

First off I'd stop killin' myself over the whole situation because I'm sure he hasn't lost much sleep over the events that took place that day. Look at it this way; you got yours (hopefully) n' he deffinetly got his. Fun right? So that's that.

If your not content with leaving well enough (you can't change it) alone then I'm thinkin' what james is. You were bold n' went after went after what you wanted that night n' now cannot pick up the phone? Who should call first??

[LadyNoir]

Originally Posted by Ladyny

I reunited with this guy from highschool. we didnt talk at all thru the years we went to school with each other. we kinda have a family connection so we were both at a family gathering. attraction hit, words were past, so we hung out later that night. We really connected interllectually and PHYSICALLY. He lives in NC, i live in NY. I can only think it was a ONE NIGHT STAND, but I'M SPRUNG already. HELP ME PEOPLE!!!!!

I'm sorry. I hope it's not, but it looks like it just may be exactly what you think it is.

charliekilothree: Bear in mind that men and women have different perceptions about intimacy. While you may have been thinking about love he was thinking about lust. Food for thought.

[Ladyny]

thanks u guys. he did call but it got worse. dude had the nerve to ASK FOR MONEY. he gave me this ellaborate story about his wallet being lost and hes unable to access his account. I was disapointed.

what a waste.

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by Ladyny

what a waste.

naw, that which does not kill you makes you stronger.
nothing is wasted.

[LadyDivine]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

naw, that which does not kill you makes you stronger.
nothing is wasted.

Ain't it the truth brother james :(

[Samoon]

Originally Posted by Ladyny

thanks u guys. he did call but it got worse. dude had the nerve to ASK FOR MONEY. he gave me this ellaborate story about his wallet being lost and hes unable to access his account. I was disapointed.

what a waste.

"Drop this knee-gro like a BAD habit and tell his arse to MAN UP and handle the biz." You deserve better, okay? Sheesh!

[goodcookinmama]

i tell ya i tell ya some men are just plain donkeys fa sure i dont even want to call these type of beings men cause they are far from it learn from this like it was already stated you got yours and he got his chunk it up and move on to better things

[DBlack]

Originally Posted by Ladyny

I reunited with this guy from highschool. we didnt talk at all thru the years we went to school with each other. we kinda have a family connection so we were both at a family gathering. attraction hit, words were past, so we hung out later that night. We really connected interllectually and PHYSICALLY. He lives in NC, i live in NY. I can only think it was a ONE NIGHT STAND, but I'M SPRUNG already. HELP ME PEOPLE!!!!!

Help you do what?!!! And what are you sprung over? I'm gonna tell you as if you were my sister; Expect more out of yourself and those you lay down with, and you won't be in need of 'help'.

Don't even expect a man to respect you if you don't respect yourself. When dealing with adults, actions always speak louder than words.

Sounds like you are asking for help because you realize your error in judgement.

Originally Posted by goodcookinmama

i tell ya i tell ya some men are just plain donkeys fa sure i dont even want to call these type of beings men cause they are far from it learn from this like it was already stated you got yours and he got his chunk it up and move on to better things

Given the circumstances, your statement here seems unfair. I think both share in the blame, if there is any to go around. Bottom line, they BOTH consented to a sexual episode based on absolutely nothing to glue them together. How can anyone mature expect something meaningful to come out of that?

[RaInEdomThoughtz]

You'll always get what you're willing to settle for