Would u hold on or stop him in his tracks?

[dyme@alltymes]

My girlfriend...or shall i say friendgirl, so I dont get everyone confused! Met this GREAT guy, in her OWN words,He has the looks,the charm,a JOB,his own place,a CAR and he can hold a intelligent conversation.....She had a heart to heart conversation with this WONDERFUL guy and he told her that his part time job is thats he's an exotic dancer...Not just any old exotic dancer...He dance in a gay strip club,but he's not gay or bisexual....

[jcsump]

Originally Posted by dyme@alltymes

My girlfriend...or shall i say friendgirl, so I dont get everyone confused! Met this GREAT guy, in her OWN words,He has the looks,the charm,a JOB,his own place,a CAR and he can hold a intelligent conversation.....She had a heart to heart conversation with this WONDERFUL guy and he told her that his part time job is thats he's an exotic dancer...Not just any old exotic dancer...He dance in a gay strip club,but he's not gay or bisexual....

Yeah right.... Your girlfriend will be on the next exciting adventure of Oprah crying the blues. I always said that association brings on assimilation. Also,what brother that has high moral standards would strip for homosexuals.

[Sumyr]

Ouch!!! It's really not all that complicated - what does her gut tell her? If she was/is having any doubts regarding his maculinity, then she should listen to those intuitions. Why a gay club - were all of the dancer positions at the heterosexual clubs filled?

Bottom line if you have to be with someone and your not sure of their sexual orientation then why bother? With men on the down low, I wouldn't take that risk.

From experience - if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then...........

[RaInEdomThoughtz]

Originally Posted by jcsump

Also,what brother that has high moral standards would strip for homosexuals.

Thats what I want to know. Maybe I just dont know any straight men who'd be willing to do this.

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by Sumyr

From experience - if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then...........

you been getting down with ducks?

[dyme@alltymes]

She asked me about it and my first question was....."Is he Bi?" She said.."He said he's not" I said but dont those guys have to touch in order for them to be aroused and what if they offer to pay him MORE if he does other sexual favors....."Is money,that important to him that he would go so low,as to strip for gay guys, but still try to uphold his innocence that he's not gay" She said he said,its only once a year in Vegas,its not like that at all...In his words.. Im not buying that!

[RaInEdomThoughtz]

Originally Posted by dyme@alltymes

She asked me about it and my first question was....."Is he Bi?" She said.."He said he's not" I said but dont those guys have to touch in order for them to be aroused and what if they offer to pay him MORE if he does other sexual favors....."Is money,that important to him that he would go so low,as to strip for gay guys, but still try to uphold his innocence that he's not gay" She said he said,its only once a year in Vegas,its not like that at all...In his words.. Im not buying that!

Its funny how when you quote your conversation with her, all she can say is what 'he said' what the hell does she think?

[Samoon]

"A BIG disease with a little name--->AIDS."

Tell your friend to please do not get stuck on stupid--in the parking lot. Best of luck to her. I question the male's sexual orientation because I believe that the majority of straight brothas would not seek employment in this arena.

[Sumyr]

you been getting down with ducks?

Very funny James. You and your shytnanigans.

[MilitantWombMan]

*Gaydar buzzes loudly*