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All of you have given great answers and advice,but it is up to the sista to face her truths. He may be in denial,but she has to come up from her denial,because in these times a woman can be hurt by burying her head in the sand.
Speak on THAT Brotha Robb...lol!
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August 22nd, 2006, 04:47 PM
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Dyme, tell your friend to read the book titled "On The Down Low" by J. L. King. It tells you all the signs of a brotha on the DL.
If she can come away feeling secure enough about him after reading this book and after trusting in "her" own intuition, then she should go for it as there is nothing you or anyone else can say to make her think/feel otherwise.
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Great Advice!!
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August 24th, 2006, 01:56 AM
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Gay is drippin' all over that situation in my opinion. That's the first thing that comes to mind. And if he's not gay now, he may become gay later. Because of my beliefs, I believe homosexuality is something of a spiritual nature and what has control over those men, may move and jump into him.
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August 24th, 2006, 10:06 AM
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Can u believe this is the weekend for him to go to Vegas, and he told her that he's staying with a friend,the friends paying for his plane ticket and food expenses and she probably want hear from him until he get back in town on Monday. I told her to please NOT put all her eggs in one basket. Its obvious this guy has other motives...She's being pigheaded,I guess she needs to just find out for herself!
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August 24th, 2006, 12:02 PM
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Can u believe this is the weekend for him to go to Vegas, and he told her that he's staying with a friend,the friends paying for his plane ticket and food expenses and she probably want hear from him until he get back in town on Monday. I told her to please NOT put all her eggs in one basket. Its obvious this guy has other motives...She's being pigheaded,I guess she needs to just find out for herself!
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Dyme, Unfortunately, your friend has been dealt a crooked hand. She should fold and definitely throw in her current hand as there is no way she is ever going to win with this joker.
Perhaps if the two of you had a mutual male friend that could help her see the light. Sometimes we can give our “girlfriends” advice, but often it helps when it comes from an objective mutual male friend. I have a female friend and a male friend who I often seek advice from. But sometimes the advice from the male has more weight.
But in the end though, it has to be her decision. That doesn’t mean you can’t help her come to this decision. Be there for her though no matter what she decides as she is going to need your support whether she leaves him, or God forbids, she decides to stay with him. :angel1: |
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this is a joke, right? |
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August 24th, 2006, 12:29 PM
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this is a joke, right?
you have to be making this mess up because nobody is that dumb. if there actually is a person that stupid please get her tubes tied and stop her from reproducing.  |
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August 24th, 2006, 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Sumyr
Dyme, Unfortunately, your friend has been dealt a crooked hand. She should fold and definitely throw in her current hand as there is no way she is ever going to win with this joker.
Perhaps if the two of you had a mutual male friend that could help her see the light. Sometimes we can give our “girlfriends” advice, but often it helps when it comes from an objective mutual male friend. I have a female friend and a male friend who I often seek advice from. But sometimes the advice from the male has more weight.
But in the end though, it has to be her decision. That doesn’t mean you can’t help her come to this decision. Be there for her though no matter what she decides as she is going to need your support whether she leaves him, or God forbids, she decides to stay with him. :angel1:
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 Your so right,my advice is worth nothing to her right now,all she hears is his sweet nothings in her ear. Only time will tell... |
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August 24th, 2006, 01:45 PM
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you have to be making this mess up because nobody is that dumb. if there actually is a person that stupid please get her tubes tied and stop her from reproducing. |
LOL LOL LOL
She need to drop this gay playa before she end up catching something. |
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August 24th, 2006, 01:57 PM
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no man of mine will be stripping. wake up something else is going on with him
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August 24th, 2006, 07:18 PM
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My girlfriend...or shall i say friendgirl, so I dont get everyone confused! Met this GREAT guy, in her OWN words,He has the looks,the charm,a JOB,his own place,a CAR and he can hold a intelligent conversation.....She had a heart to heart conversation with this WONDERFUL guy and he told her that his part time job is thats he's an exotic dancer...Not just any old exotic dancer...He dance in a gay strip club,but he's not gay or bisexual....  |
It is possible he could be telling the truth, but who knows, only he does.
If she feels uncomfortable then maybe she should ease up a bit, but just because others feel he might be gay does not in itself proves that he is, because he could very well be telling the truth.
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