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June 20th, 2006, 08:11 PM
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I just say give me the ring. That way everyone can move on without her feeling guilty about keeping the ring and without him feeling regret for letting her keep the ring. Ill absorb all of those emotions for the both of them. Just give it to me.
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June 21st, 2006, 02:10 PM
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You wouldn't get that ring back from me, and if demand it back. The only ring you might get is one around your neck, and it wouldn't be one made with 'precious stones', but more like rope.  I'm only playing. :LolLolLol |
Well in that case you can keep it, Corals. Believe me, I'd hate to stand in between a woman and her jewelry. A man can catch a serious beatdown that way.  |
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June 21st, 2006, 07:06 PM
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Well in that case you can keep it, Corals. Believe me, I'd hate to stand in between a woman and her jewelry. A man can catch a serious beatdown that way. |
Well MrAtlanta, it appears that all it takes are the right words and you can bring a man down to his knees. 
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June 21st, 2006, 07:17 PM
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I guess I would feel kinda guilty keeping the darn thing. Afterall, it leads to nothing but memories and lord knows that would be the last thing on my mind.
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June 21st, 2006, 11:44 PM
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If it ended amicably, I probably wouldn't ask for it. If she wants to give it back, I'd probably accept.
If it ended badly, I would have no problems asking for it. In fact I might demand that she give it back. That's just me.
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I'm with you. If it ended peacefully I don't think I'd feel right asking for it back. I'd consider it a nice parting gift for her to remember me by. But if it ended nastily and especially if it was her fault she'd better give it back or I'd have my mama forcibly remove it. And she bites!
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I just say give me the ring. That way everyone can move on without her feeling guilty about keeping the ring and without him feeling regret for letting her keep the ring. Ill absorb all of those emotions for the both of them. Just give it to me.
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June 22nd, 2006, 12:24 PM
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I'm with you. If it ended peacefully I don't think I'd feel right asking for it back. I'd consider it a nice parting gift for her to remember me by. But if it ended nastily and especially if it was her fault she'd better give it back or I'd have my mama forcibly remove it. And she bites!
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Aw Lawd, dont get Mama involved. 
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If it ended amicably, I probably wouldn't ask for it. If she wants to give it back, I'd probably accept.
If it ended badly, I would have no problems asking for it. In fact I might demand that she give it back. That's just me.
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That's how I feel it would really depend on how the relationship ended.
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June 22nd, 2006, 09:38 PM
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The ring is not a gift, it is only symbolic of the possibility of marriage
She both legally and morally should give it back regardless of who broke off the engagement
The man can and should demand it back
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June 24th, 2006, 10:36 PM
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Yes I would give back the ring.... Why would any woman wanna keep it???.... So she can remind herself daily that a relationended between her and the mman that she was ultimately gonna spend the rest of her life with???? That makes no sense to me.
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June 24th, 2006, 10:41 PM
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Why would any woman wanna keep it???
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That's the thing Serenity. If the ring is worth anything she SHOULDN'T WANT to keep it. Ya take that sucker to the pawn shop and then hit the mall for a post engagement shopping spree. And if she gives the ring back the man should do the same. I know I would. |
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